So my husband lives with another woman....

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Now's a good time to take up playing golf.
Ex-partners teeth often make excellent places to pitch your tee ;)

What happened to you sucks, but elbow grease will get you over it sure enough.
Swallowing pride and doing shit work will get your further.
I knew people at Uni that got scurvy eating pot-noodles because they were too proud to do a McJob, while I was getting back on my feet whilst avoiding being stabbed at a bottleshop. Fun times.

And don't worry about Unarmed Gunman. He's just gotten all itchy from pr0xyhub licking his brundle...
 
On second thought, if you can wait a couple of months, maybe, Obama the saviour can help you.

ps. a better use of this thread would have been to use the boobs icon (and made use of it in your post(s)) instead of the douchebag icon.
 
Unarmed Gunman said:
I've been around a while - spent 7 years in prison so I know about hard times. I know about losing everything. I also know that you were living within your husband's means, not your own. If you were living within your own means, him leaving wouldn't matter.

Don't forget - you told him to leave, so deal with the consequences. Stop bitching because he left an older woman that was driving around his luxury car, living in his $600k house, spending his money, for a younger prettier bitch that is lower maintenance and probably swallows.

You told him to leave, do you blame him?
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Hummm....prison doesn't surprise me. I created our business, website, concept, etc. etc. He lived off me all these years...he drove a hummer, lived in this house (that I found) he spent MY money, and he controlled MY money.

I went through icsi invitro to have a child because his sperm didn't work. The thanks I get is him leaving me for a woman 6 years older than me because life got too hard for him.....now he is lving off her. Ya get the picture? Really I don't need to explain to you that I am the bread winner, but yet your little brain automatically assumes that I have been living off of him. I said "he left, and at the same time our business is tanking..." He should have been a man and provided for his family if the family is broke and the mother can't work because she is caring for their child...do you get it now??? Ya...I told him leave because I am not a door mat that will allow a man to walk all over me. I will be much happier living in a tent without him. You are disgusting by the way and again...Fuck-You very much!
 
Aniston said:
Hmmmm??? Do tell...I am intrigued! LOL :)
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I got to say. I respect you a lot. My advice is simple. Live below your means for awhile and get back on your feet. Sell your luxury car for something reliable. A '95 honda accord or civic maybe? You won't turn heads, but you will have more security money. As for your house, is it paid off fully? If so, sell that sucker and buy a nice house out here in South Dakota in the beautiful black hills for $200k.
 
I am so sorry that you are going through this, my dear. I hope you can sell the house and car and come out of this with some of your credit intact. Unfortunately, sometimes we can't sell off in time. Have you sold any collectibles, furniture, clothes, etc. ? You will need to travel light for a while anyway, so downsizing could generate some needed cash right now. Can you and the baby move in with family for a while, until you can get back on your feet? Can your family help you with a good divorce lawyer? The way that man abandoned you and the baby will not sit well with most judges, so you may get something from him in the future.

Just remember, you will get through this. Try to get someone in your family to watch the baby, so you can get back out there and earn a living again. Once you get past the divorce, and have income again, you can rebuild a life for yourself and the baby. You need the support of your family right now, so don't be too proud to move back in with Mom and Dad for a while. Sometimes, we have to fall back and regroup.
 
Old Goat said:
I am so sorry that you are going through this, my dear. I hope you can sell the house and car and come out of this with some of your credit intact. Unfortunately, sometimes we can't sell off in time. Have you sold any collectibles, furniture, clothes, etc. ? You will need to travel light for a while anyway, so downsizing could generate some needed cash right now. Can you and the baby move in with family for a while, until you can get back on your feet? Can your family help you with a good divorce lawyer? The way that man abandoned you and the baby will not sit well with most judges, so you may get something from him in the future.

Just remember, you will get through this. Try to get someone in your family to watch the baby, so you can get back out there and earn a living again. Once you get past the divorce, and have income again, you can rebuild a life for yourself and the baby. You need the support of your family right now, so don't be too proud to move back in with Mom and Dad for a while. Sometimes, we have to fall back and regroup.
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Thank you so much and to everyone else today that gave me support! I really mean it! I am moving into my parent's house. You know I never thought at 35 I would be here in life...never. If you told me I would be here a year ago, I would have thought you were crazy. I mean my Mom worked for me a few years ago...wow how the tables have turned. Living with them will still be better than the physical & emotional abuse I have been through. I'm just trying to get through the financial part of all this. My parents are willing to loan me the money for my divorce....they are ready for me to file to say the least...it's a shock to them and to all my friends. I lived a life of facades...nobody knew anything was wrong...my life was a joke. If you are in an abusive relationship...get out now....it only gets worse. If you are an abuser....go to hell.
 
Aniston's ex husband and the woman he left her for

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I missed the part about the divorce/attorneys?

I do not know ( I am not an attorney) but I would guess some of these issues would be worked out ( to the extent they can) through divorce and other legal proceedings, including probably bankruptcy(ies).

I know thing can take awhile and aren't resolved over night, but the first thing I'd be figuring out is why I own a business and property with an Ex- and then get my justice and get out.

Regardless, you are far from the first family this has happened to. I know people who have been through similar things and turned out OK.

ETA: I see now you mentioned the parents helping pay for divorce. When I read the first post that was the first thing that came to mind. that's something you have to sort out before a lot of stuff gets figured out.
 
tweak50 said:
If you take away half of the income from 90% of the families in America, they would be in the same spot. If you would pull your head out of your ass you would realize that.
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Quoted for truth.

We were barely able to pay our bills four months ago. Two months ago, my wife's wages got garnished for about 25% of her paycheck. I ramped up my other clients and could see a light sometime then I got moved from contract to full-time salary and now the taxes are eating about 20% of my checks.

Times are hard all over.

To answer the obvious questions: 1) garnished by the state for back income taxes that piled up because I've been 2) working for a company full time that's paid me as a contractor. But instead of saving up money to pay the stupid taxes I paid bills. I've been moved to full time status so that shouldn't happen again, but in the mean time we're taking it in the teeth.
 
Call a local church and ask them to pay your utilities, they will do it.
File bankruptcy, that will buy you some time.
Then take his ass to court for child support and get him for abandonment!

You do have some options here.
 
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