Getting Married/Marriage Expenses
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Are you married bb? And maybe NOT a 300 pound douchebag married to a similar fucking no-necked monstrous beast? If you're single FUCK OFF! If you married Donna Reed who doubles as a nymphomaniac/chef please give more information.
I resent nothing and am very happy with my life, enjoy what I'm doing, etc..
OP: Apparently, saving money for yourself is frowned upon by the Wickedfire community. Just give the woman all your money and make sure everything is in her name.
Good luck
My final words: The idea of marriage is a beautiful thing. If you can have a lasting relationship based on trust, communication, and all that shit, it might be a wonderful experience that will last 50+ years. It's all about compromise.
I resent nothing and am very happy with my life, enjoy what I'm doing, etc..
OP: Apparently, saving money for yourself is frowned upon by the Wickedfire community. Just give the woman all your money and make sure everything is in her name.
Good luck
My final words: The idea of marriage is a beautiful thing. If you can have a lasting relationship based on trust, communication, and all that shit, it might be a wonderful experience that will last 50+ years. It's all about compromise.
I'm married to an amazing woman who is skinny (even after 2 kids in 2 years), is a wonderful stay at home mom, getting her masters degree, and lets me work 12 hour days without complain. If she brings me a beer at 11:45 in the morning, I know I can find her naked at noon up in the bedroom. That's my life, pussy, eat your heart out. Do never test.
I know I can only speak from personal experience but we had a very cheap wedding ($3k) and overall it was great, hire a company to bring in a tent, had a outdoor wedding by a small lake, nice an private.
Didn't hear a single complaint , everyone had a good time.
Didn't hear a single complaint , everyone had a good time.
Ive been with the same girl for almost 6 years, (im 24) and we get along great, i personally could not see myself with anyone else, we have talked about marriage and we just dont want to do it right now. We both think that you dont have to be married to be happy. And we are both happy where we are at right now. I guess thats my marriage advice, Dont rush it.
My wedding is in September of this year.
Our wedding is going to cost around $20k. We paid for pretty much all of our services, really high end food (filet mignon + chicken on each plate), champaign, open bar, music services, lighting specialist, wedding day organizer / manager, florist, outsourced invitation, etc.
You can do it for a lot less but for us it was mostly about convience and time. I run a business and my Fiancee is trying to start one so it made sense.
The wedding + buying a house + vacation = extremely expensive season! hahaha
Our wedding is going to cost around $20k. We paid for pretty much all of our services, really high end food (filet mignon + chicken on each plate), champaign, open bar, music services, lighting specialist, wedding day organizer / manager, florist, outsourced invitation, etc.
You can do it for a lot less but for us it was mostly about convience and time. I run a business and my Fiancee is trying to start one so it made sense.
The wedding + buying a house + vacation = extremely expensive season! hahaha
You know...when we were dating she was way into it. I remember on Saturday we did it 7 times in a row in the space of a few hours. It was raining and there was literally nothing more appealing to do.
She'd do it in the boat - on the hotel balcony - etc, etc, etc. Anywhere, anytime.
Put the wedding ring on - presto, the end of that.
Sounds like mine - it was in September and cost a lot too.
All you left out was the 400 person Yacht.
Paid like 400 bucks total to stay somewhere for a weekend. Had the marriage performed in the Inn. No religious stuff. No guests. Was our ideal thing.
Note: We are not like most people. But I feel I won from the start by having a wife no expecting me to waste money on bullshit.
Note: We are not like most people. But I feel I won from the start by having a wife no expecting me to waste money on bullshit.
Taxes and some other things that come with the state sanctioned "civil union" contract that marriage really is. I am not religious and really don't believe in state sanctioned relationships either. However, I guess it is somewhat "easier" in some ways to go along with it. I am not perfect and take advantage of things that make sense in an imperfect world.
What about read my e-book first on gene pool survival and happiness. Free for forum member (there is a rule against selling e-book and I just want feedback and potential affiliate). You will never want to get married once you read that. Now or never.
Hint: In rich countries, women are bitches. Mighty ones.
Canceled: What about read my e-book first on gene pool survival and happiness. Free. You will never want to get married once you read that. Now or never.
Hint: In rich countries, women are bitches.
UPDATE: I've heard about giving free report is bannable offense. So, I withdraw the free e-book. None of you can read my e-book even if you pay $1k. Selling e-book is also bannable. But how can I explain that marriage is a bad idea? Hm... Never mind. I won't. Sure get married. Yea. True love. Romance and all. Religious sanction it. Government want it. Must be a good thing. Kewl...
Here is another hint: Marriage is societies' trap to ration mates in equal share for everyone. That's why the alternative are often illegal.
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My guess is a lot of you guys are unlucky with women. With this attitude, you'll never have sex unless you pay for it.
Free sex means free competition. That means most won't get any the way Wall Mart's competitors go. So "society" want you to get married and they provide intensive to do so.
Still not worthed in my opinion.
Without marriage and if sex is totally free, ugly women and poor males will go extinct. Well, those people can vote and they can fight, so most societies appease them somehow.
DON'T GET MARRIED. FUCK marriage.
Oh okay... Unlike in syndk8, we can't say fuck here. Lessons learned. This is a very polite forum. Like DP. Sorry...
And about whether women are powerful bitches in rich countries.
It's not a point of view.
Think it this way. Capitalism means you own your self. Is that good? Well, it depends on how much your self worth right?
If you're rich, productive, or if you're a beautiful woman, then owning yourself is a big deal. You'll love free market, or free sex.
What about if you're an ugly women? Then owning your self is not a big deal. You would rather want to own and rule others...
Here is another way to see it.
Free means competition. Free market means the best product get the whole marketshare. Free sex means the sexiest people get all the mates.
Women prefer the rich. In rich countries, males are more "liberal". Males are more likely to let the women choose. Even if women don't choose me, I can just import women from poor countries.
If you are competitive you support freedom. What about the woman? Pretty girls showing up in porn means most males would rather jerk of rather than marrying an ugly woman. There are many poor but pretty women from Eastern Europe, Russia, China that love to suck American's rich cock.
So the women, especially ugly women, in rich countries, are the one opposing free sex.
In poor countries, it's the male that opposes free sex. In countries that legalize polygamy, like in Arab, the males opposes free sex a lot. They are starving. Letting women choose means extinction for them.
Then we have religion, ideology, and a bunch of other nonsense to cover up the real reason.
And marriage?
Marriage is always on the side of those in power and hence less competitive. In rich countries, marriage terms favor women. In poor countries, marriage terms favor men. I have a female friends that can't get a divorce even though her parent is probably richer than her husband. The court must find mistakes first.
And about whether women are powerful bitches in rich countries.
It's not a point of view.
Think it this way. Capitalism means you own your self. Is that good? Well, it depends on how much your self worth right?
If you're rich, productive, or if you're a beautiful woman, then owning yourself is a big deal. You'll love free market, or free sex.
What about if you're an ugly women? Then owning your self is not a big deal. You would rather want to own and rule others...
Here is another way to see it.
Free means competition. Free market means the best product get the whole marketshare. Free sex means the sexiest people get all the mates.
Women prefer the rich. In rich countries, males are more "liberal". Males are more likely to let the women choose. Even if women don't choose me, I can just import women from poor countries.
If you are competitive you support freedom. What about the woman? Pretty girls showing up in porn means most males would rather jerk of rather than marrying an ugly woman. There are many poor but pretty women from Eastern Europe, Russia, China that love to suck American's rich cock.
So the women, especially ugly women, in rich countries, are the one opposing free sex.
In poor countries, it's the male that opposes free sex. In countries that legalize polygamy, like in Arab, the males opposes free sex a lot. They are starving. Letting women choose means extinction for them.
Then we have religion, ideology, and a bunch of other nonsense to cover up the real reason.
And marriage?
Marriage is always on the side of those in power and hence less competitive. In rich countries, marriage terms favor women. In poor countries, marriage terms favor men. I have a female friends that can't get a divorce even though her parent is probably richer than her husband. The court must find mistakes first.
You always pay for sex dear.
Marriage is just one bad way to do it. The rest are made illegal to force people to get married.
Paying for sex and reproduction is just the normal way. When one party contribute sperm and the other got to go tits up for 9 months, it's natural that the males compensate for that. Money is simply universal barter objects.
Nice, BB.
I try and work at home 2 days out of the week vs. the office. I find the wife bringing you a beer or drink early in the day totally kills your productivity for the day. But, we have 2 kids as well, and there is just no way we're doing this in the evening.
When my wife brings me a vodka/cranberry at 11am, I know I need to hurry my ass and get my shit done for the day. Because by 12pm, I'm having trouble finding the keys. And I know by 2pm I'll be in the jacuzzi.
That's because you hold your alcohol like a young schoolgirl! Can't play with the big dogs if you pee like a puppy!
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I don't know about this 11 am stuff. But there's nothing like sitting on the back porch with your honey and a few glasses of wine at the end of every day. Marriage is the promise that we're going to be doing that for the rest of our lives. (Really it's in the contract. 5pm. Porch. Wine. So let it be written so let it be done!)
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