Ya I'm getting raped on fees too. Not only does the network take $20 off your wire, my bank also charges me $14 per incoming wire. So if you're being paid by 3 networks a week, do the math and you're getting bent over.
My bank wants me to keep $100K in my account in order to receive a $4 reduction in fees (i.e. $10 instead of $14). Pretty fucking retarded if you ask me. If I did 3 wires a week over a year, I would save a measly $576. Yet if I invest $100K at a low interest 1%, I would be way farther ahead. But obviously the bank makes a shittonne more than 1%. Fucking crooks.