hahaha, I bet that was your first girl...!
So lesson learnt, what girls say and what they want are totally two different things!
They may go all feminist on your ass, but what a girl really wants is to be taken care of, and be given rules. It's what makes them the happiest, keeps them satisfied. (No matter what she tells you...)
Oh, and always remember! a jealous girl is generally a loyal girl! If you get enough attention from women around you (that aren't her), she'll probably never leave you!
(Then again, what do I know? I'm just a gay wickedfire webmaster ;-) so my knowledge about pussy is kinda limited)