God I feel wiped out.

kblessinggr

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Only had the 3rd kid home since tuesday, but got both the older boys (2 and 1) back thursday afternoon. I'm still ill from something affecting my lymph node in side of my groin so moving around a lot gets me tired and in pain. This is the first time I got on the laptop all day.

This is the third night I'll probably be staying up until 7 am taking care of the new born before I hit the sack and have my wife take over til noon. Worse part is, kid sleeps fine in the basinet earlier in the day, but then comes the 4am feeding and changing (it's currently 4:30am). After that he won't sleep unless I sit there and hold him most of the way til 7am (he'll usually want another feeding/changing shortly before then, least he's on routine).

Right now my brain is wiped, I can't really think of much other than taking care of the kid, finding it hard to get back on a working schedule so I can start bringing back in the income. My ankles hurt, my left thigh hurts, my head hurts, I'm tired but can't sleep.

Seriously thought bout seeing if I could score some adderall or similar, but then thinking I'd fuck myself up with that. My saving grace is that the two older boys tend to sleep thru the night, and I know (I hope), I'll be able to hit the bed at 7, since The wife has a friend come over while I sleep to help with the kids (she's not supposed to do any lifting, etc etc due to the c-section, yet she can be bloody impatient at time and try to do so anyways before I even rush over to help her, then gets all psycho at me that she had to do it).

I saw it coming, but didn't expect to get my "thinking" brain wiped that badly.

... 2 hours and 15 minutes to go.
 


I hear ya man. I've had family members have newborns that were perfect angels and just slept all the time, woke up 3am for a quick feed, then back in snooze land.

Our first was born with colic that last 9 months. You want to know what pure agony is? It's having a baby that cries 100% of the time. You can't even imagine the amount of suffering and psychological toll that does to parents. Try and imagine you newborn son just crying non stop when awake, not being consolable.

We tried every trick in the book. Running vacuum cleaners for white noise, buying specially made cd-roms with soothing music, only showers seemed to help, but my wife showing with the baby 10 times a day got old fast.

Those were the hard times of my life where I slept sporadically 45 mins here, an hour there, and thought I'd never ever want a kid again.

Then something happened month 9, the colic stopped, and she smiled his first smile, and it was all smooth sailing from there.

You are not alone, good luck! Lean heavy on family right now to help out. Got a mother in law who is bored? Get her over pronto!
 
Our first was born with colic that last 9 months. You want to know what pure agony is? It's having a baby that cries 100% of the time. You can't even imagine the amount of suffering and psychological toll that does to parents. Try and imagine you newborn son just crying non stop when awake, not being consolable.

We tried every trick in the book. Running vacuum cleaners for white noise, buying specially made cd-roms with soothing music, only showers seemed to help, but my wife showing with the baby 10 times a day got old fast.

With our first who was born premature at 1lb 13oz, we got him home after 72 days in NICU, he of course had to be on a heart monitor and had a prescription for caffeine to keep him breathing (something like 1ml or so). Well the first several months his heart monitor would go off every 10 to 15 minutes with bradies and apnea, Course I usually slept thru that being as hearing impaired as I am.

Our second had quite a bit of acid for the last several months (both kids have a prescription for acid, but our second has it bad, I'm guessing its genetic, cuz I'm on 40mg of prilosec a day myself.) He'd wake up in the middle of the night screaming and crying, and nothing would calm him for hours. He's doing a lil better, he did have a series earlier tonight though.
 
Good luck man. My wife is pregnant with our 3rd child (others are 4 and 3) and she is already having problems, so I can understand the impatient thing big time. Our first child didn't have colic but wouldn't stay asleep unless he had the vacuum on, so I made a CD looping a sound of a vacuum that would honestly keep him asleep.

Anyways, hang in there and it will get better soon. The first few months are always the hardest!
 
Good luck man. My wife is pregnant with our 3rd child (others are 4 and 3) and she is already having problems, so I can understand the impatient thing big time. Our first child didn't have colic but wouldn't stay asleep unless he had the vacuum on, so I made a CD looping a sound of a vacuum that would honestly keep him asleep.

Anyways, hang in there and it will get better soon. The first few months are always the hardest!

Putting them into a car seat and driving em around the block seemed to do the trick. A vacuum would absolutely terrify our first born.

I'm up again because as of about 8:30 when I bought Tyke out, she wanted to goto bed and wanted me to watch all the kids in the morning. So... I only got I think 2 hours sleep instead of the usual min 6.
 
The car trick worked with my daughter but when we would get home, she'd wake up instantly. We even carried the car seat in the house so we wouldn't disturb her and as soon as we laid down, up she was. Oh well, that is the life of having children.

Sorry about your sleep too. I hate not getting sleep or even worse, interrupted sleep.
 
Our first was born with colic that last 9 months.

My friend had a colic baby. They actually used chiropractic treatment and it worked. When babies are born, sometimes their vertebrae can get pulled out of line and that can be the cause for the constant crying. After the treatment they never had a problem again.
 
My 1st born was colic also, its hard to describe, non stop crying.
I used to think, how could someone ever hurt a baby? Well, now I know. When I had not slept in days, baby screaming screaming screaming screaming it takes a lot of self control not to shake that little fucker but somehow you fight through it. Today that little screamer is in his 1st year of college playing baseball on a scholarship.

Hell yeah it was worth it 20 times over

Hang in there its all good bro