what to do?....wife swallows

oldgym

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My wife and I are real conservative people, we enjoy our little family life with 2 kids, live in a medium sized community with great neighbors and relatives nearby.

so here we go, being married for 12 years our sex life has slowed down a bit, which is normal, we do it maybe once every other week. Its still great sex, over the years I slowly convinced my wife to do things that she was not comfortable with.

The only thing that she has refused to do is swallow my jizz. she says it tastes realy gross in fact she doesnt even like it in her mouth.

well, yesterday my old friend from high school was in town and so we had a potluck with him and his family. He was always getting the girls back in the day as he was a stud and still looks good.

My wife has met him before in the past and I noticed that she would be blushing. yesterday she was still kinda the same and I could tell that she was overcome by my friends good looks.

Its really embarassing for me and I kinda hoped that i was the only one noticing it, but my friend has that affect on women and he knows it, but hes real cool and really ignores my wife just to make me feel more comfortable.


well lastnight after coming home from the potluck my wife is in a really sexual mood. she makes the moves on me and we start having wild sex, it gets real intense and I take advantage of the situation, I get her to swallow and she enjoys it.

although I had one helluva night i was like WTF!!!! was she like imagining having sex with my friend and I was just there by proxy?
or even worse, did she swallow only because she imaginged my friends c**k in her mouth.

seriously bros!!!!!! WTF am I supposed to be thinking today???
Next time I hang out with my friend Im gonna make sure the wifes stay home.
 


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Meh. Just fuck her doggy-style and then call out some other chicks name when you cum.

Or better yet... since this is the gay webmasters forum....

Call her some dudes name. Win - win.
 
Anyone else notice that he's completely basing this on the fact that he's assuming?

Look at the only thing you can concretely confirm at this point. She swallowed.

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Edit: I'm not saying shes not, I'm saying stop thinking about shit like that. It doesn't help your cause. And you're still the one she was physically with, even if not mentally.
 
Why not talk to your wife about it? Obviously you don't want to straight ask "Were you imagining my friend was fucking you the other night? is that why you were so turned on?!" because you'll sound like a jealous self conscious faggot. Poke around a bit, ask her about that night and once you get talking about it you can figure out what was going on.

Sitting around thinking about it or asking people on forums about shit like this will pretty much only lead you to draw conclusions and then convince yourself they're true, 95% of the time if someone would just talk to their fucking spouse they wouldn't have so many issues. If you've been with her 12 years, she is comfortable enough with you that she'll swallow your cum then she probably wont have an issue talking about your mental shit.
 
You left out important information. Does he have a hot wife, perhaps paying attention to you? Imagine that scenario then: Your friend, ignores her. You're talking to him, his hot wife. Your wife is on an island of sad all night, the results, predictably, are winning.
 
im serious, I aint makin stuff up. sorry to be so blunt but thats what happened.

I do the same thing all the time, I imagine myself screwing another chick becasue sometimes thats what motivates me to have sex on a day that maybe Im not much in the mood for it but still want to satisfy my wife.

the only difference is that I leave no clue for my wife to think Im fantasizing over someone else. and in all honesty i dont mind if she fantasizes over a famous person but a friend or relative is just not rite.

or atleast dont leave clues.
 
I asked my chick to read the OP and give her thoughts:

"i think that she was probably thinking of fucking his friend, but uhm, she swallowed, so why is he complaining"

Different strokes for different folks, some like Pepsi and some like Coke.
 
What are you some kind of question freak? Just keep doing it, don't ask questions.
 
She gave you a good blow job, she enjoyed herself, your buddy is cool and not going to tag her, hell keep him around as a fluffer to get her all worked up. Seems like it is a win win. Just parade him in when you want to get your cock sucked
 
sometimes in a relationship, somethings are better left unsaid.

now if I think that shes trying to flirt with him and see a potential hookup between them then yes i would definately ask her about her feelings toward him.

But i just think its a natural thing for humans to fantasize so Im not mad over that, im just a little pissed that she has a crush on my friend and she aint mature enough to downplay it.

its like she acts lilke a litttle teenage girl that just ran into justin beiber.

thats what annoyes the F**** out of me
 
Ask her why, after 12 years of marriage she finally decided to swallow.
Were your friend and her alone at all where something could've happened?
Which friend was this? Jack or Pete?
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If it was Jack and you do think something happened, just ask him and if his right eye twitches he's lying!
 
Sucks to be you, but why don't you ask her straight up? If you've been together 12 years she should be honest. Tell her that you also find some chicks hot when you go to bars etc...