Why Very Successful Guys Should Avoid An Exclusive Girlfriend At All Costs

...Probably stood out to them cuz I was the guy who sat at the bar of a nice, dressy sushi restuarant in a t-shirt not giving a fuck.

they were probably 4's or low 5's. Good luck fucking random bar bangers with the "I don't give a fuck" look, unless your on TV.
 


I will be curious to see the statistics on marriage after another decade or so. People between the ages of 18-35 right now, the majority probably grew up in divorced households/extended families as well.

I have noticed among my group of friends that it seems like the ones with parents still together mainly seem to be all about longterm relationships and start getting "anxious" when they are not in a relationship with someone for an extended period of time.

I noticed this especially with many of my female friends. It is almost like a different form of social anxiety where they feel like they NEED to be in a relationship...whether that is all emotional, mental, financially motivated I have no idea...

Where as a lot of my friends that come from "less stable" homes seem to be enjoying the single life well into their early thirties, both male and female.

Not at all the case in my family.
 
they were probably 4's or low 5's. Good luck fucking random bar bangers with the "I don't give a fuck" look, unless your on TV.
well, probably helped i was the tallest/strongest looking mofo in the place too. we all know chicks like the athletic dudes with big dicks right? i would say they were both 9s. I won't even talk to girls if they're not model quality.
 
Shit I'm 32 and just the other night hooked up with 2 hot early 20s girls I was sitting next to at a Sushi restaurant. Guys were buying them sake from across the restaurant and I didn't do shit or even hardly talk to them. Just said a few words and met them at a bar later. I think all I said was, "this ice cream tastes like grass." Probably stood out to them cuz I was the guy who sat at the bar of a nice, dressy sushi restuarant in a t-shirt not giving a fuck.
well, probably helped i was the tallest/strongest looking mofo in the place too. we all know chicks like the athletic dudes with big dicks right? i would say they were both 9s. I won't even talk to girls if they're not model quality.

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well i don't know what planet all you fags are from, but all my guy friends who are athletic and have no problem picking up chicks always dress down and don't front either. you all need to rethink your game if you think girls can't see you're ugly and unfit behind your dressy clothes.


 
well i don't know what planet all you fags are from, but all my guy friends who are athletic and have no problem picking up chicks always dress down and don't front either. you all need to rethink your game if you think girls can't see you're ugly and unfit behind your dressy clothes.

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Where'd you get the photo of Steve Pavlina?

He's the ugly dude who had the balls to tell his wife years into their marriage that if she didn't agree to bring other women into his marriage then, well, he was going to anyway.

I hope she took him for every fake "million" he always claims to be making as part of his "success teaching."

There's nothing wrong with having multiple partners as long as both partners are in on it from the beginning. Don't be changing your mind years into something and then try to shift the rules around.

If you're not capable of monogamy, you already know this about yourself, so at least be up front with the women in your life.

I think it's also helpful to spend some time not dating at all so you can figure out just what place, if any, a woman might have in your life.

If you're a lot happier without dealing with a woman day to day then just get fuck buddies and you'll be fine.

If you like to have a combo friendship/sex partner/house mate then you're more on a track to be a longterm partner to the right woman.

It will take you a while to find that woman, though.

Women do NOT reveal their true selves until a long time into a relationship, I've found.

Took me a few tries before I was lucky enough to meet the Mrs.

We have a cool back and forth humor/flirtation/friendship thing going on all the time that just makes life a lot more hot and fun. Everything on top of that is a bonus.

I didn't have that with other women; they didn't seem capable of it.
 
well, probably helped i was the tallest/strongest looking mofo in the place too. we all know chicks like the athletic dudes with big dicks right? i would say they were both 9s. I won't even talk to girls if they're not model quality.
This man actually has a point - what the "unfit" among us can learn is that the least we can do is get our body into peak physical shape. You may or may not start getting more attention from attractive ladies, but even if you do you don't necessarily have to act on it if you don't want to.
 
We're arguing over a sales pitch....

Anyway, I saw this on Twitter a few weeks ago and I agreed whole-heartedly with the point that an insecure women does not want a man to grow and be his best.

If a girl likes you because you're a cool guy that can get girls, she instantly wants you to change if you get in a monogamous relationship with her, because the qualities shes likes about you are also a threat to the relationship.
 
A post about how to pick up women...
Let me put it this way. You can read 1000 books about sex and be a virgin. Still, you'd know nothing compared to someone who can't even read but got laid last night.
In Theory, theory and practice are very much alike, but in practice, they are completely different.
 
Perhaps it's the fact that I'm always with slightly more mature women, but by the time I date them, they seem to be "beaten down" enough to the point where they'll accept uncommitted monogamy. Hahaha

What is uncommitted monogamy? and how is it different from any other monogamous dating relationship?

I would think that most of my youth was uncommitted monogamy (If I'm thinking of it right) which is usually what everyone does in this time period. But apparently prior to the 70's it was perfectly normal to date multiple people at once (guy or gal). Part of me wishes this was still acceptable now a days but I also know with my own personality, I just can't juggle that many guys at once, even if everything is open.
 
What is uncommitted monogamy? and how is it different from any other monogamous dating relationship?

I would think that most of my youth was uncommitted monogamy (If I'm thinking of it right) which is usually what everyone does in this time period. But apparently prior to the 70's it was perfectly normal to date multiple people at once (guy or gal). Part of me wishes this was still acceptable now a days but I also know with my own personality, I just can't juggle that many guys at once, even if everything is open.

Basically, it was like... "I'm possibly going to drop off the map or stop being into this, so try not to get too attached.... but for the meantime, I'm having a great time and won't sleep with anyone else because I simply don't care to. I like you more than that. I just don't know how long it will last and nothing is 'official'"

But the update is that yesterday we went facebook official, so I'm now a bit more committed, both in private and to the rest of the world. It's been fun and I'm happy.

For me, I had a grand realization that I was fighting my feelings for her because they were new feelings to me. And finally snapped out of it before ruination.
 
this is how you do it. no bullshit... just straight to the point.

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Basically, it was like... "I'm possibly going to drop off the map or stop being into this, so try not to get too attached.... but for the meantime, I'm having a great time and won't sleep with anyone else because I simply don't care to. I like you more than that. I just don't know how long it will last and nothing is 'official'"

But the update is that yesterday we went facebook official, so I'm now a bit more committed, both in private and to the rest of the world. It's been fun and I'm happy.

For me, I had a grand realization that I was fighting my feelings for her because they were new feelings to me. And finally snapped out of it before ruination.

So it wasn't really any different after all, she just made you think it was, lol. Took the bait!
 
well, probably helped i was the tallest/strongest looking mofo in the place too. we all know chicks like the athletic dudes with big dicks right? i would say they were both 9s. I won't even talk to girls if they're not model quality.

I bet that makes for some pretty compelling conversations.
 
We're arguing over a sales pitch....

Anyway, I saw this on Twitter a few weeks ago and I agreed whole-heartedly with the point that an insecure women does not want a man to grow and be his best.

If a girl likes you because you're a cool guy that can get girls, she instantly wants you to change if you get in a monogamous relationship with her, because the qualities shes likes about you are also a threat to the relationship.

So the lesson here is don't be a tool
 
We're arguing over a sales pitch....

Anyway, I saw this on Twitter a few weeks ago and I agreed whole-heartedly with the point that an insecure women does not want a man to grow and be his best.

If a girl likes you because you're a cool guy that can get girls, she instantly wants you to change if you get in a monogamous relationship with her, because the qualities shes likes about you are also a threat to the relationship.

I've read a lot of good shit here, but this is by far some of the most accurate statements I've come across. Speaking from personal experience as well now that I think back on it.
 
Shit I'm 32 and just the other night hooked up with 2 hot early 20s girls I was sitting next to at a Sushi restaurant. Guys were buying them sake from across the restaurant and I didn't do shit or even hardly talk to them. Just said a few words and met them at a bar later.


have you ever considered trying a little homoerotic fun? I don't know what it is but I have the craziest urge to put your gigantic cock in my mouth...it's like you just bleed sexual attraction.

want to skype? i have a cam bro...what is your skype name, I'll add you.

EDIT: I swear I'm not gay bro, just want to give it a shot with you!