You haven't asked one question about my business, nor do you have any idea who my customers are. All you know is that we have some sort of internal philosophy. You have no idea if it's working or if it's not working. I don't think that speaks to a serious flaw on my part. But I appreciate the words of wisdom. If you would like to know more about why we made that decision, I will gladly explain. That said, our customers do care quite a bit about our internal philosophy. Our internal philosophy is responsible for the current growth, and it has generated an incredibly loyal customer base. It doesn't mean that we won't change how we do business. But for now, this is the brand we've decided to build. Now back to discussing cart abandonment.Maybe you should do a better job convincing your visitors to believe that you are as awesome as you believe you are, so they should pay more just because of your awesomeness.
Your customers could care less about your internal philosophy and that shows a serious flaw on your part. Customers dont care what they can do for you, they care what you can do for them.
Stick to retargeting, but setup lists and target people who reached your checkout page with a custom message.