My uncle is pretty bad ass. About 16 years ago his wife ran off with the gardner (I'm serious) and left him with 3 kids: 4 yrs, 2 yrs and 9months. The next day he went down to the courthouse and filed a petition for full custody. He said, "There's no way I'm going to lose my kids too". That same year it turned up his business partner was embezzling money from the business and he went bankrupt. So he just started over with a new business. Today he is doing very well, he is remarried and has a total of 5 kids all together. I call him super dad. He's truely a remarkable man.