That's true- but this isn't about you or the way your wife handles it, dude. We're speaking in generalities, and I got news:
In 52 fucking years on the planet, the women who I've observed breastfeeding in public with decorum and discretion have been few and far between. My own Mother was one of the worst offenders, and as the oldest of TEN kids, I've seen a lot of "spilt milk".
And every kid is different, too. Some just latch on and sip quietly- others noisily suck, slurp, chew, and emit little cries and moans. And that just flat ruins my dining experience, and that's not right either.
Most nursing mothers (and their partners) are so bound up in the whole "new baby" deal they are completely self-absorbed, they think everyone should be with them on it, hence this bullshit action from some idiot for new and unnecessary legislation.
Imho it's fucking simple- if you absolutely have to go out to dinner or other adult event with an infant, one bottle of formula ain't gonna kill the little shit. You get what I'm sayin?
So you've been picking on your younger siblings for like a good 50 years now? You Grandmotherfucker!