but i got discouraged by the overwhelming shit around with not knowing what the fuck i am doing
Don't get discouraged bro. Shit, I fall on my face constantly at the moment, but each time I get up from something that has defeated me, I realize I get up with new knowledge under my belt and just keep on ploughing through. Falling down, not knowing what you are doing and feeling like an idiot at times is just part of the process for some of us.
But don't give up and don't be afraid to start. What makes most of the real money makers on here successful is the fact that they are willing to take the bumps and bruises, and occasionally fall flat on their faces. It's how you learn new things, and identify those things.
There are only two ways to fail that I can see. One, you try and you give up. Failures along the way are just road bumps. No one truly fails until they stop trying. Second, not starting in the first place. This can be through paralysis by analysis or simply fear of getting it wrong. Don't be afriad of the second one and don't let the first one stop you.
I am also kind of affraid to spend any real cash
Most things can be started relatively cheaply and scaled from there. Don't use this as an excuse. The more research I do, the more I realize how cheaply you can get a project up and running and after it makes a little money begin to scale up and sink some money into it. The more I make on my sites, the more I spend on them and that start up from the beginning has always just been domains and hosting.
It also seems like you cant trust anyone but yourself.
Not true. Wickedfire, despite it's harsh nature sometimes, is a wonderful place to network and meet people that are not only happy to help you, but are very good at keeping what you do to themselves. The enlightened section is a glimpse into what these people are willing to share. Have you fun here, learn stuff, but most importantly network. Over the last few years I've learned stuff from some cool and genuine people who are simply top shelf when it comes being helpful. Guys like grindstone, CCarter, Anand, Illyas and others have probably taught me as much though simple conversations off wickedfire as they have on it.
So get around, post some more, give a little something back to the community and you'll be surprised who is willing to help you. Network, network, network.
One other thing I would suggest is a journal. It can be on here (you will find a few), or simply a book where you write down what works and what doesn't, what costs what and what doesn't etc. Doing it on here would be a benift in two ways; if you encounter problems other members may be able to help you, it keeps you motivated because it's out there, or simply as a sounding noard to bounce ideas off.
Wow, that was a rant. Good luck! Just dive in, the water's fine.
