Yea, I can relate to this. I've experienced criticism and condescension by people that don't have enough experiential reference to put me in any other box except "stereotypical black" and "white black" because I'm articulate and create and live inside my own culture of shit I care about. Try to remember that EVERY human being makes these sorts of broad generalizations about things and people. Even you just did in saying "white" and "black" culture are all bad. These things aren't pathetic or even mental laziness, they are just natural human survival mechanisms. If we all tried to process every single new piece of data we experience in the day case by case and constantly re-evaluate our worldviews we'd go crazy and get stuck like an overloaded cpu processing and loading too much shit at once. Just do you 100 percent and you will attract the people who see and appreciate you for your whole character instead of just their projections. These are the people who's opinions should actually matter to you. Just sayin, if you still care that random people throw blanket projections at your entire character and judge you this way or that way, you are still kinda plugged in anyways just the plug sneaked in the backdoor. Get mind control by eben pagan off biztorrents bro, highly recommend it.
This topic reminds me of this mckenna clip, he breaks down culture pretty well for a couple minutes starting at 0:55.
Terence McKenna: Culture is not your friend - YouTube
I agree with McKenna up until he gives them his answer of what do you do about it, how to fight it.... ART? Jesus fucking christ.....What a fool. He's sugar coating it to the audience because he knows they would hate his real answer.... ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. There is no stopping the game. There is no ending the game. Unless you die or opt-out and choose to leave modern society. Aside for those two options, you must play the game. So play it to your advantage and reach up to the highest tier of power and control... the ruling class. Anyone who wants to be part of it, can obtain it. They care not where you came from or how much your family had when you were born. Well, usually not.