girlfriend left me for not "dominating" her..

tommt said:
i always felt like i had to treat her as an equal.. not be controlling etc..

one day she says she needs to be dominated..leaves.. and ends up with a muslim..

i knew i should have smacked her around...
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Dude, you need a complete realignment.

Her need for "domination" is not kinky, it's natural.

She wants to feel safe, secure - but you offered her independence. Guess what? She had that before she met you.

What I want you to do, tommt, is when you get a new girl - you smack her ass in bed. Routinely.

For God's sake, don't ask permission, you just do it. Make sure it's a good, loud clap - leave it red. And smack it 5 or 6 times more than you think you should.

And I am dead fucking serious - it's gonna naturally change the way you and she interact. 100% of women dig it, you're gonna be the one feeling "empowered" - I guarantee it.

This "equality" shit is stupid and you both know it. You're not her hiring partner, you're her man.

The dance between men and women has been give-and-take since the dawn of time. Respect that dance and you win the woman.

-

I enjoy the following video, maybe you will too. It's about men overcoming the dangers of the jungle and scoring some sweet tail:

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OP, the reason she left you was because she felt weirded out by having to put on a strap-on dildo to fuck you in the ass.

You can always ease prostate play in (no pun intended) once you've been with a girl for a while.

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infoslob said:
For God's sake, don't ask permission, you just do it. Make sure it's a good, loud clap - leave it red. And smack it 5 or 6 times more than you think you should.

And I am dead fucking serious - it's gonna naturally change the way you and she interact. 100% of women dig it, you're gonna be the one feeling "empowered" - I guarantee it.

This "equality" shit is stupid and you both know it. You're not her hiring partner, you're her man.
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i can confirm this works with dogs. transfer-over seems legit.
 
tommt said:
i always felt like i had to treat her as an equal.. not be controlling etc..

one day she says she needs to be dominated..leaves.. and ends up with a muslim..

i knew i should have smacked her around...
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Troll post is weak. Bit more effort please. The muslim thing was way too obvious. 2/10

galacon said:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAALOLOLOLLLLL

WTF BRO.

Why in the FUCK would you treat something that bleeds copiously for a week yet doesn't DIE as an "Equal" anyways? Are you fucking retarded?

Oh wait, you already answered that.
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Galacloud. Seemed like a productive use of my time.

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She's over here now with her tongue firmly nailed to the table and a stream of cum bubbles flowing out of her ass...begging to make me a sammich.
 
Troll post may be troll, but you're probably looking at 80% if not more of American men (and spreading quickly even to non-western countries) where they've satiated themselves on the kool-aid.

Worst part is those spreading these beliefs to guys like OP (or non-troll version of OP) don't even realize they're cutting themselves off at the knees.

I had bought into the idea that the demonstrative/pushy... or leader side of my personality needed to be tempered. And I did, but I ended up swinging too far and screwed up a considerable chunk of my life.

When I returned to my normal self, such as running modified game (note: being a man, not routines/negging-online-whatever) on my ex, and women in general, life also returned to normalcy... actually, a 10x improvement. I don't even want my ex back for what she did but I have a frictionless divorce which works well for me & the kids. Previous was anything but. Rest of social + business calendar is full & satisfying.

Earlier respondents had it. Women need this type of leadership, judiciously applied. They'll also fight against it and never admit in groups. You'll never get tacit approval in most western countries to basically be a man and embrace your real role/purpose, but you won't get tacit approval to do much of anything which provides real value in life.

Just do it & report back in 6 months. I'd imagine she comes back without you lifting a finger to do so and whether you take her back or not, your life will be a 170 degree turn. Troll on.
 
LOL

Funny how this is taken to the extremes.
(She probably does not know what she wants)

Thing is, she (and most women) don't even want to be dominated in an extreme sense - but simply not be with a whimp.

Typical conversation in your household:
Her "Let's go eat out."
You "Ok, honey, where do you wanna go?"
Her "I don't know, where we going?"
You "Anywhere you wanna go"
Her "Oh, what do you feel like? I'll tag along."
You "Oh, just you decide."
...ad infinitum...

Her wanting you to decide is not
- wanting to be dominated

It's simply "Please make a decision (of little consequence, really), tell me what YOU like (sharing), make me feel secure (by showing that you feel confident making this choice), take the guesswork away (irritating, and take the burden of decision off her back (lighten the load)."

If you can do that, you add value to your relationship without being dominating.

If you can't, how is she gonna build a future (with far more consequential decisions ahead) with you?

In short:
Be confident and decisive, make her feel secure, and add value.

Can't be that hard?

::emp::
 
Not sure if this is a troll or not, but I'll play into it for fun...

Mother Nature fucked women up pretty bad... on a biological level, women are naturally attracted to high testosterone males, showing signs of power, domination and aggression. Problem is evolution is linked to a drop in testosterone, so the modern male is getting smarter, but losing testosterone in the process.

Now, on a spiritual level, women want a nice sweet male that will buy them flowers, be a good dad that will take his kids to Disney land and make them a lunch box in the morning when she's tired. (Read: high estrogen male)

Every woman (especially 25-35 year olds) has this fight going on inside of her.

OP, my guess is your woman's biological self won the fight (for now)... but when her sex drive naturally starts to drop, she might give you a call.
 
OP! if you are here to gain sympathy, you have at the wrong place. People here will mock you for their fun. You are the dumbest person I've met so far, posting such personal stuff, thinking that someone will help. Think on your own and get your solution. No-one here is your advocate.
 
xtremes1993 said:
OP! if you are here to gain sympathy, you have at the wrong place. People here will mock you for their fun. You are the dumbest person I've met so far, posting such personal stuff, thinking that someone will help. Think on your own and get your solution. No-one here is your advocate.
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I disagree with a crucial point in your post. I've seen many threads where people were given useful suggestions for personal issues. Sure it was sometimes couched in mockery and scorn, but the bros do give support to fellow WF members, even about emotional issues - I've seen it a number of times.

I've found good advice on this forum and applied it to my life, not only work stuff (which has also been helpful) but diet suggestions (juicer thread!), cholesterol info, water purity, some really good reading suggestions and also a lot of good music suggestions, etc etc.

As for your comment that the OP is the dumbest person you've met so far, if you mean ever, then you've lived a very sheltered life, if you mean on WF then you you need to read more threads.
 
emp said:
LOL

Funny how this is taken to the extremes.
(She probably does not know what she wants)

Thing is, she (and most women) don't even want to be dominated in an extreme sense - but simply not be with a whimp.

Typical conversation in your household:
Her "Let's go eat out."
You "Ok, honey, where do you wanna go?"
Her "I don't know, where we going?"
You "Anywhere you wanna go"
Her "Oh, what do you feel like? I'll tag along."
You "Oh, just you decide."
...ad infinitum...

Her wanting you to decide is not
- wanting to be dominated

It's simply "Please make a decision (of little consequence, really), tell me what YOU like (sharing), make me feel secure (by showing that you feel confident making this choice), take the guesswork away (irritating, and take the burden of decision off her back (lighten the load)."

::emp::
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Yeah the conversation needs to go like this instead. You really need to own that bitch.

Her "Let's go eat out."
You "You buying?"
Her "Yeah"
You "Aight then"
Her "Where do you want to eat?"
You "Lets eat at that Italian place on Main"
Her "Pasta makes me fat, I can't eat the carbs"
You "Bitch please, you eating a double order of Fettucini and then sitting that fat ass down on the couch to watch Sex in the City makes you fat. Now get your fat ass in the car and drive me to Mariano's and buy me some fucking raviolis"
Her "Ok daddy"
 
Ignore all the faggoty replies OP. All you need to do is to tie your cock to a truck, let the truck stretch your cock a little bit, then make a lasso and catch girls with it. That's the best advice you are getting, trust me, I did this and it works for me.
 
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