No doubt, of course I like to see family - that aspect is cool about christmas. My gripe is that as a society we've decided we need christmas as an excuse to do this once a year.
To translate for you christmas lovers...why not pretend it's christmas every day? Why be nice and thoughtful and giving just once a year? Treat every day like it's something special, instead of just Dec 25.
Goddamnit, I thought one of you queens were finally coming out on wickedfire.
I don't need some holiday based on a fairy tale to make me act nice, smile, be pleasant, share, or give to people.
I do that shit every day, yet all the christians I know think I'm evil because I'm agnostic (they generally associate agnosticism with atheism which they somehow associate with the devil). They also think I'm a scrooge because I don't accept gifts or recognize christmas. I tell them if they *have* to spend money on me, make a donation to the leukemia and lymphoma society on my behalf and have a card sent to me. Then they say "ok, but really...what should I get you?" So meanwhile they are spending money on superficial gifts to give to friends and family - not because they really want to, but because it's christmas and that's just what you do on christmas. And they still think I'm the one who needs saving.
/rant
No doubt, of course I like to see family - that aspect is cool about christmas. My gripe is that as a society we've decided we need christmas as an excuse to do this once a year.
To translate for you christmas lovers...why not pretend it's christmas every day? Why be nice and thoughtful and giving just once a year? Treat every day like it's something special, instead of just Dec 25.
Did y'all know in 350 AD, Pope Julius I declared that Christ’s birth would be celebrated on December 25. He was trying to make it as painless as possible for pagan Romans (who remained a majority at that time) to convert to Christianity. My 2nd question is, why should we listen to a Pope?