Thanks for the post and discussion, guys...
...ahem, @gomister, I gave that talk at TED nearly three years ago now, and I'm happy to say that I am still getting fucked on an extremely regular basis. There's life in the old cunt yet!
@rage9 - yes, I'm afraid I put the site up on no money three years ago and it is extremely basic and clunky.
@kingofsp - absolutely right. I'm never wearing earrings again when I speak into a headset mic
@blokblok - I should emphasize that MakeLoveNotPorn is not anti-porn - I'm entirely pro-porn and watch it regularly myself. The issue I'm tackling is not actually porn, but instead, the complete lack in our society of an open, healthy dialogue around sex and porn, which would then enable people to bring a real-world mindset to the viewing of what is essentially artificial entertainment.
@jake1125 Actually, au contraire, I find the older I get the hornier I get

I make sure I do what I enjoy and what my partners enjoy in bed, and I'm sorry to disappoint you, but my mating opportunities only increase with time. Just check out any number of the many online cougar dating sites out there to get a sense of why. And you'll already know from the far greater number of milf porn sites that yes, there are a lot of really weird younger men who really do enjoy fucking older and older women
Do check out the 'About' page on
Make Love Not Porn :: Porn World vs. Real World, and you'll see just some of the emails I get every day, from young and old, male and female, from all around the world, that demonstrate why what I'm tackling with MakeLoveNotPorn is an issue. You can also, if interested, read my (very short! very cheap!) TED e-book for a lot more detail on why I launched this initiative and the response it's received (including from within the porn industry), available on iTunes:
iTunes - Books - Make Love Not Porn by Cindy Gallop
and on Amazon:
[ame=http://www.amazon.com/Make-Love-Not-Porn-ebook/dp/B004P1IX9U/ref=ntt_at_ep_dpt_1]Amazon.com: Make Love Not Porn: Technology's Hardcore Impact on Human Behavior (TED Books) eBook: Cindy Gallop, Rodger Ruzanka : Kindle Store[/ame]
While MakeLoveNotPorn has been my secondary venture - my primary startup is
IfWeRanTheWorld - the response has been so overwhelming that I feel a responsibility to take it forwards in a way that will make it more helpful and effective. I think all of you will be highly entertained by how I plan to do that

You can check the next iteration out there when it launches, probably in Feb/March 2012:
makelovenotporn.tv
In the meantime, do feel free to email
cindy@ifwerantheworld.com if you would like to discuss further - many thanks.
Cindy Gallop