Ive got both, i tend to lean towards the ps3 when non exclusive games come out, blu-ray was important to me at the time, but i havent bought one in a few years. Controllers are pretty different but after a few play throughs you get used to them. Each system has its own set of exclusives you wont see on the other. 360 had Gears, Halo, Fable, and few others. Ps3 has Uncharted, Heavenly sword, god of war, and a few others. It really depends on if theres a certain type of game you like.