I disagree, the best women are naturally feminine. They don't have to constantly be corralled and controlled. It's really more a testament to how masculine and unattractive American women have become in their personalities and mindset.
I used to know this chick who would whine that she couldn't find any alpha males. I didn't even bother telling her that you can't have two alphas in a relationship, it takes yin and yang, alpha and beta, positive and negative.