I guess the thing that scares me is the time factor. I don't care about investing money and never seeing a return - fuck it. You can always make money back, but time is forever lost in the past. And that's the scary thing about the SEO game. It takes serious time and commitment, and if things don't pan out, that's HELLA time I've wasted. Wasting time is a far greater risk then losing imaginary digits at this point...
Hey, peasant here. I've been lurking on these forums for a little while, but I have to ask a question that's been haunting me for a while...
How easy was success for you?
Cuz right now, I'm willing to sacrifice whatever to become financially independent and make it in this game, but I'm also curious how many successful IMers hit the "self-doubt" wall I'm experiencing.
But I'm struggling here...
I've been at IM for the past 2 years on and off
Failure = Past Experience
Resources = Money (and/or) Time
Luck = Timing (and/or) Generating Your Own Luck (Sheer Determination)
Therefore
Failure + Resource + Luck = Success
And Success?
Success = Doing what you love
When you are attempting to succeed, failure is a necessary ingredient. You're going to need resources and that's going to be your main problem since one is dwindling another is infinite. If you lack capital/money then you're going to need a whole lot of time. If you lack perfect timing then you're going to need to generate your own luck. If one side of the equation is lacking, you're going to need a whole lot more of that other side.
If you lack failure it's impossible for you to succeed with the exception of lightning striking once scenarios. Continuously striking lightning is continuous success, which is very difficult if not impossible without Failure (experience). If you lack resources it's impossible for you to succeed. If you lack luck it's impossible for you to succeed. And most importantly, success it not defined monetarily. It's defined by doing what you truly love. More money just allows you to do what I call success a lot easier.
I know I've had more failures than I can remember. But with each failure I learned something important and "arrived" at the next level. I recall back when I was young having a certain amount of money in the bank gave me that satisfied feeling, I was able to "breathe" so to speak, get out of the rat race. At a certain point, that extra dollar doesn't give you the same satisfied feeling. If you drop a billion dollars in my lap, since I've had "Failure", I know now I have billion dollar problems.
More Money is not success. Success is truly doing what you love, while having room to breathe and being about to truly make your own decision and choices, which a majority of the world has really never experienced, and they probably won't.
Do you have any experience in getting spun right round and right round?
Damn, some real shit. Thanks.
I think that's the only thing that's been keeping me motivated - you really only fail if you quit completely.
I guess the thing that scares me is the time factor. I don't care about investing money and never seeing a return - fuck it. You can always make money back, but time is forever lost in the past. And that's the scary thing about the SEO game. It takes serious time and commitment, and if things don't pan out, that's HELLA time I've wasted. Wasting time is a far greater risk then losing imaginary digits at this point...
But fuck it, no pain no profit.
Thanks for the responses (that includes dickrolls and/or dickroll references - it's an honor lol).
The price for success is paid in full, in advance. The elevator to success is closed. You must take the stairs. Any other cliche's I can throw at you?
You say:
Are you prepared to work 18 hour days?
Are you prepared to go into debt?
Are you prepared to risk going bankrupt?
Are you prepared to eat Top Ramen every day for a month?
Are you prepared to have all your family ridicule you?
Are you prepared to have all your friends laugh at you?
Are you prepared to get stomach ulcers because you've put everything on the line for your dream of financial success?
Are you prepared to fail big and fail publicly?
Just a few questions to think about before working for yourself full-time.
Will Smith shares his secrets of success - YouTube
A great video. get it watched and then get fucking working.
Are you prepared to work 18 hour days? Yes.
Are you prepared to go into debt? Hell no. Never.
Are you prepared to risk going bankrupt? Yes. I could deal...
Are you prepared to eat Top Ramen every day for a month? Been on that.
Are you prepared to have all your family ridicule you? If I didn't have my affiliate checks mailed to my parent's house (my apt complex is sketch as fuck), they'd think I was fucking retarded. Luckily, they support me.
Are you prepared to have all your friends laugh at you? Yes. They think I'm delusional.
Are you prepared to get stomach ulcers because you've put everything on the line for your dream of financial success? Eeeh.. if it happens it happens I guess..
Are you prepared to fail big and fail publicly? I've had a fear of failure my entire life up until the past 2 years, but failing has actually made me a bit more thick skinned.. but I'll still need to fail/win a bit more before I can handle widespread public humiliation.