I got both the regular flu shot in August and the H1N1 recently and I am fine, plus my 2 children are as well. Also, my pregnant wife got the shot and is fine as well.
It's way too early to be saying "we're all fine" no offense.
It's not like you take the shot and fall to the ground dead... the supposed effects from it can surface much, much later. Whether there are effects or not is beside the point, just don't think anyone can claim they're safe... not to mention you're kind of fucked now when h1n1 mutates in the Spring like everyone claims it's about to, your body will have built up resistances to the wrong strain (perhaps).
Then again, I may catch it and drop dead and you can do a Font 32 TOLD YOU SO in my honor ;-)