This is why having a wife can be iritating

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tatrasim said:
You are doing it wrong.

Don't ask questions, tell statements instead, follow her tactics. When you ask a question, you are giving an option say no, an option to think and decide if she is actually exhausted or wants to do something. If you want to still be nice and give an option, you can ask "Wanna bend over or get on top?". Try it, see if it works, do some split testing... It's like aff marketing. That's why you don't say "Wanna download?", instead of "Download Now!" on your buttons...
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this made my day. Going to start split testing and tracking my sexual advances and optimize my approach.

I wonder what kind reaction I'll get when I go over to a spread sheet to mark down conversions before we climb into bed.
 
tatrasim said:
You are doing it wrong.

Don't ask questions, tell statements instead, follow her tactics. When you ask a question, you are giving an option say no, an option to think and decide if she is actually exhausted or wants to do something. If you want to still be nice and give an option, you can ask "Wanna bend over or get on top?". Try it, see if it works, do some split testing... It's like aff marketing. That's why you don't say "Wanna download?", instead of "Download Now!" on your buttons...
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Eye Opening statement.
 
DrewClement said:
Let her know you take care of things, put a roof over her head, allow her to have nice things.....and sex is what YOU get out of it. It's obvious she is a student as she has so much homework, so I am assuming you are the sole breadwinner.

If she isnt going to provide it, you are going to go looking elsewhere for it....it is as simple as that. Even if you think it would never come to that, you would be amazed how your brain works after a few rejections and lack of action.

I cant wrap my head around why more women do not understand that concept, and seem to think sex is a favor or something we should only get if we "behave".

She doesnt wanna engage in sex? Fine, her loss.
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Yep - you only count as married if you're getting it at least once a week. Otherwise it's carte blanche.

Didn't you know that?
 
The only leverage a wifey/gf has over a dude is sex. And life for the guy will be much better once she realizes that he can AND WILL get it from other sources for much less hassle and cost.
 
the only reason you got married was so you could keep having consistent sex, but now you can't even get it.

something is disturbingly wrong with that picture.
 
The whole being persuasive by not asking is nice and all.
Or you could prevent having to do all that forever by throwing the biggest tantrum of your life the first time she rejects sex.

We're talking water works, fist shaking, cussing out god, driving your car through the front door. Make a nice big spectacle out of it and you'll be getting it in every time :)
 
IMHopeful said:
My advice would be to not ask for sex. A confident man takes what he wants... Of course, you do have to make her feel sexy before you mount her.

Luckily a girl I was dating let me in on that secret early in life:

"If you have to ask for sex, the answer will be NO!"
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Thanks a lot for sharing this information. We learn many things at WF.
 
music4mic said:
I wonder what kind reaction I'll get when I go over to a spread sheet to mark down conversions before we climb into bed.
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lmfao

I love the split testing idea. You sir, are a multitasker who can see the bigger picture.

Ok not asking for sex is true to a point. While dating or honeymooning, I agree 100%. Take that shit, aggressive (read:not abusive lulz) is #Winning. The longer you are married though, you'll find yourself more often asking for sex instead of trying to seduce her for it. Especially if kids are around. You gotta plan that shit out, spontanaiety (wtf spelling) is straight out the fucking door. :love-smiley-086:
 
tatrasim said:
You are doing it wrong.

Don't ask questions, tell statements instead, follow her tactics. When you ask a question, you are giving an option say no, an option to think and decide if she is actually exhausted or wants to do something. If you want to still be nice and give an option, you can ask "Wanna bend over or get on top?". Try it, see if it works, do some split testing... It's like aff marketing. That's why you don't say "Wanna download?", instead of "Download Now!" on your buttons...
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+ rep for split testing getting laid
 
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