But for me 90% of learning php was trying to find help by googling for people that already solved the problem I was facing. Sure I learned from video courses and read tutorials on the net but that only gets you so far.
Googling answers is certainly an effective way to solve php questions, but then going to a tutorial (at least for me) helped me understand the fundamentals/terminology of what I just learned.
So now we have OP here that wouldn't even take 5 minutes to do a quick search to find an answer using google. This thread has been open literally thousands of times and there are hundreds of blog posts dedicated to answering it. He'd find better and more detailed posts. It's just an indication that if he's too lazy to find this, how will he ever find the energy/will to do the same task dozens and dozens of times a day for weeks once he gets into programming.
It's not laziness, it's using a forum to obtain help that's current. You can google "PHP tutorials" and find 50 of them all created at different times. You can google php forums/blogs and search posts for the top tutorials. Or you can take 60sec to ask a forum what their favorite tutorials are, and possibly find a new or highly recommended resource.
Of course the question has been asked 100 times, but who knows if a new member/answer/tutorial will exist today instead of X months ago when the last "What php tutorial?" thread was made.
Saying somebody is destined to fail because they asked a forum full of programmers where to get started in programming is laughable.