Why did you got married?
- Thread starter Biohazard11
- Start date
Pretty ignorant comment, IMO.
Have you ever been with a girl?
Or Dawkins-forbid, promoted anything in the wedding niche?
Men don't pursue women for marriage. They pursue women for the fun.
No Commission No Wife
I have been married for 11 months. The 'plan' finish Officer Candidate School and then maybe deploy. After I lost my commission due to a running injury...the wife ran faster than I ever could.
I have been married for 11 months. The 'plan' finish Officer Candidate School and then maybe deploy. After I lost my commission due to a running injury...the wife ran faster than I ever could.
This, bro.
And the scariest part is, you have no way of knowing if the woman you're with before marriage will change after marriage.
Marriage: promising forever to someone based off the arbitrary conditional love you're currently feeling...
Things change, don't fool yourself into thinking your love is anything but conditional and guess what, conditions change.
Enjoy it while it's good, move on when it changes. If somehow it never changes and it always stays good, awesome! That's great, but don't trick yourself into thinking you know the conditions allowing you to love this person will last. So don't lie to yourself and your partner by promising forever.
Marriage is an insecurity issue.
And kids? Starting a family? Nothing but a vanity issue. This world doesn't need any more people.
Seems to me freedom is the most important thing and yet people are so quick to give it away for false security.
Things change, don't fool yourself into thinking your love is anything but conditional and guess what, conditions change.
Enjoy it while it's good, move on when it changes. If somehow it never changes and it always stays good, awesome! That's great, but don't trick yourself into thinking you know the conditions allowing you to love this person will last. So don't lie to yourself and your partner by promising forever.
Marriage is an insecurity issue.
And kids? Starting a family? Nothing but a vanity issue. This world doesn't need any more people.
Seems to me freedom is the most important thing and yet people are so quick to give it away for false security.
I saw everybody has a different opinion about this marriage topic.
Actually how many of you guys in this thread that already got married?
well i am not married yet. because i am still young. i stiil can pursue my carrier and my happiness.
Actually, what if you in this situation.....
You're old...
you don't have kids..
and then you fall sick... Really sick.
No one bother to visit you anymore after couple of years in the bed. Even your friend. They Got bored.
You said nearby the window.. Then you realize, that you're lonely.
You're in old folks home... Hurrmmm...
| okay, maybe i exaggerating about this .
I do think we need to settle down when the time comes, have kids.. Educate them to be a part of the community, teach them how to appreciate us a parent.
Maybe this video can make you realize that how important is marriage in our life and how good to have kids that appreciate and love you.
I've insist you guys watch this video (not my website)
Watch This | Video
thanks guys for your feedback on this thread.
Actually how many of you guys in this thread that already got married?
well i am not married yet. because i am still young. i stiil can pursue my carrier and my happiness.
Actually, what if you in this situation.....
You're old...
you don't have kids..
and then you fall sick... Really sick.
No one bother to visit you anymore after couple of years in the bed. Even your friend. They Got bored.
You said nearby the window.. Then you realize, that you're lonely.
You're in old folks home... Hurrmmm...
| okay, maybe i exaggerating about this .
I do think we need to settle down when the time comes, have kids.. Educate them to be a part of the community, teach them how to appreciate us a parent.
Maybe this video can make you realize that how important is marriage in our life and how good to have kids that appreciate and love you.
I've insist you guys watch this video (not my website)
Watch This | Video
thanks guys for your feedback on this thread.
"Three in four couples who married after 1990 celebrated a
10-year anniversary"
Number of long-lasting marriages in U.S. has risen, Census Bureau reports - The Washington Post
10-year anniversary"
Number of long-lasting marriages in U.S. has risen, Census Bureau reports - The Washington Post
opened this thread
and was pleasantly suprised to see the responses from men. Your wives would be proud
It really is about the person you marry not the actual piece of paper that makes it bad. Sometimes, the wife or husband is still the good one. Unfortunately, their partner can bring out the worst in the them..Sometimes if things are going south, you have to take a look in the mirror
and was pleasantly suprised to see the responses from men. Your wives would be proud
It really is about the person you marry not the actual piece of paper that makes it bad. Sometimes, the wife or husband is still the good one. Unfortunately, their partner can bring out the worst in the them..Sometimes if things are going south, you have to take a look in the mirrorto put it simply... you are with the wrong woman if you are asking that. it is give and take. if you find someone you will know they are right. if you feel that you shouldnt get married don't because 50% is a big investment as a starting point especially if you have to split.