Elime's point is extremely important for those of you who have weak personalities to grasp.
It's ok to admit you're too nice and sometimes let people use you, so that you can change yourself and stop letting it happen immediately.
This post really resonates with me, because up until half a year ago I was a doormat for a couple of "friends" and I never had any social leverage at all. People didn't respect me when they saw how my "friends" treated me in front of them, and being the "nice guy" that I was I just brushed it off and let it happen again and again and again...
it's not alright
If you have people around you like my "friends" aka "people users," grow a pair and tell them to fuck off (preferably in front of all their snooty friends) and get away from them permanently.
Because those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind you having a backbone because they have backbones too.
It's ok to admit you're too nice and sometimes let people use you, so that you can change yourself and stop letting it happen immediately.
This post really resonates with me, because up until half a year ago I was a doormat for a couple of "friends" and I never had any social leverage at all. People didn't respect me when they saw how my "friends" treated me in front of them, and being the "nice guy" that I was I just brushed it off and let it happen again and again and again...
it's not alright
If you have people around you like my "friends" aka "people users," grow a pair and tell them to fuck off (preferably in front of all their snooty friends) and get away from them permanently.
Because those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind you having a backbone because they have backbones too.