Getting Married/Marriage Expenses

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You always pay for sex dear.

Marriage is just one bad way to do it. The rest are made illegal to force people to get married.

Paying for sex and reproduction is just the normal way. When one party contribute sperm and the other got to go tits up for 9 months, it's natural that the males compensate for that. Money is simply universal barter objects.
One thing I have observed about this site, dear, is that in spite of the randiness and cursing, there is a very high degree of respect for knowledge of all kinds. The most high value WF members are those who regularly share.

From what I see of your posts, they are rants backed up by little or no data, it's the world according to teguh123. The teguh123 manifesto.

If you want to call me a bitch, feel free. Only your opinion.
 


so either work on freeing her inhibitions through counseling, or come here and jerk off at the bobby pics like im sure lots of these guys do - lol.

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If you want to call me a bitch, feel free. Only your opinion.

Um no. You may be ok with it but I'm not. It borders on harassment when other people start name calling.*

*Exceptions to this rule are n00bs that don't read the rules and forum trolls. In that case, name calling is perfectly acceptable. Please note there are some forms of namecalling that have been copyrighted by wicked fire and respect should be paid accordingly. These
You are a douche
©, douchebag© or any form of douche©
You are retarded© or your retarded©
You are a fuckwad©
You are a cunthair©
 
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Um no. You may be ok with it but I'm not. It borders on harassment when people start calling other people start name calling.*

*Exceptions to this rule are n00bs that don't read the rules and forum trolls. In that case, name calling is perfectly acceptable. Please note there are some forms of namecalling that have been copyrighted by wicked fire and respect should be paid accordingly. These
You are a douche
©, douchebag© or any form of douche©
You are retarded© or your retarded©
You are a fuckwad©
You are a cunthair©

I feel that cunthair is still open source, but that n00b© and other neutral terms deserve special copyright protection due to their unique WF usage.

n00b©
pwnd©
lulz©
teh©

Teh© endz©. :stonedsmilie:
 
That's because you hold your alcohol like a young schoolgirl! Can't play with the big dogs if you pee like a puppy!

Hah! Well, in defense of my incredible ability to drain down anything alcohol related, we're not talking about a tiny 8oz cup here. She brings me down something akin to a barrel-sized glass. And I swear the woman must fill it 2/3rds full of vodka.

So if your wife brings you down a beer at 11am, and you're a big racedog here gulping them down and feeling nothing, sounds like your fun doesnt begin until later in the day.

See, that's what great about being a lightweight - I can feel awesome after one enormous drink. If my old frat brothers could only see me now, there would be posters of me everywhere labelled "LIGHT WEIGHT LOSER" on the walls.
 
I don't know about this 11 am stuff. But there's nothing like sitting on the back porch with your honey and a few glasses of wine at the end of every day. Marriage is the promise that we're going to be doing that for the rest of our lives. (Really it's in the contract. 5pm. Porch. Wine. So let it be written so let it be done!)

Of course, who wouldnt want to do this. But you have kids, correct? If not, let me share with you what happens at our house at 5pm:

1. 8 year old has homework one lucky parent gets to her help her with.
2. 2 year old can only watch WONDER PETS and SPONGEBOB for only so long before she starts crying.
3. Wife is cooking for everyone.
4. I'm decompressing after another day of this insane business.
5. After dinner, kids need their bath. Settling down time begins. If we're lucky, both are in bed by 9pm.

After this, wine on the porch is more like a fantasy for single couples. Now you why 11am is party time at this house ;-)
 
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Of course, who wouldnt want to do this. But you have kids, correct? If not, let me share with you what happens at our house at 5pm:

1. 8 year old has homework one lucky parent gets to her help her with.
2. 2 year old can only watch WONDER PETS and SPONGEBOB for only so long before she starts crying.
3. Wife is cooking for everyone.
4. I'm decompressing after another day of this insane business.
5. After dinner, kids need their bath. Settling down time begins. If we're lucky, both are in bed by 9pm.

After this, wine on the porch is more like a fantasy for single couples. Now you why 11am is party time at this house ;-)


7 year old and a 9mth old. The youngest loves being in the yard so we just watch him crawl around and the oldest is either playing in the neighborhood or out there with us. It's a family affair, sometimes we have to resort to piglatin but it's all good.

EDIT: If I had my husband home with me you can bet we'd be having those 11am happy hours every once in a while. Hell even some special brownies every now and again. ;) But for some weird reason he's happy at his job.
 
Then you're a fucking idiot for paying 20K for a wedding.


Guido wannabes anyway.



You dumb fucking kiddies are missing the whole point of the day, to start a marriage, not to have a fucking wedding. Anyone dumb enough to drop 30K on a fucking one day event deserves a bat between the ears for chronic stupidity.



In other words, you're no smarter than the fat trailer trash women who buy bottles of Acai....

It is apparent that you have no clue about a NY wedding , BTW- my wife is Italian nice comment you POS . We paid the 40 K and had a great time , I have been to about 6 weddings in the last 3 years and ALL of them were over 20 K . Every NY wedding I have been to it is a sit down affair and a great time . Also know that the gift that are given is not some cheap appliance it is cold hard cash . That is how it is done around here .

I have been to wedding in all parts of the US and it is not like that down South or Midwest , But it is up here .

We aren't from the trailer parks where you have cake and Nattie light is the way to celebrate .
 
We aren't from the trailer parks where you have cake and Nattie light is the way to celebrate .

So cheap meatballs and food for your parole agents cost $20K?

You married a fucking guinea for $20K+ and presume to lecture me?

Kind of like a prisoner bitching about sentencing reform.

Fuck you and your greasy meatball vagina.
 
I paid for about half of mine, and the bill was about $30k, but also got married in a small town. If shit hits the fan, I'll never get married again, and just bum around the world, which is what I'd be doing if I wasn't married. Money disappears much quicker once you sign that piece of paper!
 
So cheap meatballs and food for your parole agents cost $20K?

You married a fucking guinea for $20K+ and presume to lecture me?

Kind of like a prisoner bitching about sentencing reform.

Fuck you and your greasy meatball vagina.

bwahahaha
 
We aren't from the trailer parks where you have cake and Nattie light is the way to celebrate .

Trailer Park Trash chiming in.

We had a nice reception, in the old scottish fashion (yes I wore a kilt...), had smoked tenderloins and turkey breast as one of the main course of meals. I mean just because we're from the Trailer Parks, doesn't mean we're going to be lazy fucks and turn a momentous event such as our wedding into just another weekend BBQ. We actually went out, got a church, got a nice reception area, had the whole wardrobes and everything made, even ordered the ancient pattern tartans for her family's clan from scotland (VAT tax is a bitch), it was nice and reasonably affordable.
 
Got married last weekend in fact. Don't even spend money on a ceremony. Get on an airplane, go somewhere romantic, get married on the beach, enjoy your time together. Getting in debt over a wedding is retarded. With the money we saved we bought a new house so we can start our new life in style instead of debt.
 
I should have thrown this out there in the thread starter, but did anyone do anything at the ceremony/reception and later thought, "Why the hell did we do that/pay for that/invite that guy/not do this or that?"

Yeah, I thought that about saying "I do" at some of mine ...

My advice to you (assuming you are the groom-to-be) is to hand her a piece of plastic and pray for the best. No matter what you budget, that budget will be fucked; no matter what input you give, it's going to be her way (and it arguably should) no matter what your best intentions are any word or deed that does not toe the party line established by the bride-to-be is just one less orgasm you're going to have on the honeymoon. Do not waste any of your time or effort thinking about your upcoming nuptials -- just perfect your interested face and your ability to say things like "That sounds awesome" and "What matters to me more than anything is that this day is perfect for you" and forget how to count money until you get back from the honeymoon.


Frank

PS Congratulations and good luck :D
 
I got married at this joint.

Gallier Hall :: The City of New Orleans

My mom and dad's families are both huge.

It's kinda like a tradition for my dad and his brothers and sisters to chip in and pay for the food and drink at all the kids weddings.

I got off relatively cheap and it was really nice.

Advice...

Save as much money as you can. It's only one day. It can be affordable and still very nice.

Man thats EXACTLY where me and my fiancee are having ours in december...ive been to two there already and decided thats where mine will be goin down...damn WF is a small world (or forum)
 
One thing I have observed about this site, dear, is that in spite of the randiness and cursing, there is a very high degree of respect for knowledge of all kinds. The most high value WF members are those who regularly share.

From what I see of your posts, they are rants backed up by little or no data, it's the world according to teguh123. The teguh123 manifesto.

If you want to call me a bitch, feel free. Only your opinion.

For evidence supporting my argument, read Matt Ridley's the Red Queen. Read any evolution theory based psychology book. So basically there is a quite old scientific opinion that humans and all living creatures's behavior can be explained through evolution theory.

This is the reason why religious bigots oppose evolution theory so much.

Or, better yet, read Cocks of the Alpha Males

I was very surprised when I read in Matt's book that monogamy are really there to protect males. Then I started doubting everything I used to believe. Are consensual crimes so bad that it's prohibited? Are there really no women willing to share? Are porn really dangerous for everyone/minor. I mean think about it.

Societies do nothing when kids got beaten up in school, yet when a kid have sex with a beautiful teacher, suddenly, boom, he's a "victim". What's going on?

Males bullshit women all day saying love, etc. And that's legal. We expect that. But when men honestly just want to pay for sex, boom, it's exploitation.

I have a female friend that are trapped into a marriage. I just don't want this to ever happen to any pretty women again. In many countries, Marriage is sexual slavery because women can't get out easily. But society just shrug that off. When that same women want to mate with richer males in richer countries, then, boom, it's exploitation, despite consent.

Of course in rich countries like US, it's the women that opposes free sex, especially the ugly. So if you're an American male, don't worry. You can attract chicks. It's the women that keep bitching.
 
For evidence supporting my argument, read Matt Ridley's the Red Queen. Read any evolution theory based psychology book. So basically there is a quite old scientific opinion that humans and all living creatures's behavior can be explained through evolution theory.

This is the reason why religious bigots oppose evolution theory so much.

Or, better yet, read Cocks of the Alpha Males

I was very surprised when I read in Matt's book that monogamy are really there to protect males. Then I started doubting everything I used to believe. Are consensual crimes so bad that it's prohibited? Are there really no women willing to share? Are porn really dangerous for everyone/minor. I mean think about it.

Societies do nothing when kids got beaten up in school, yet when a kid have sex with a beautiful teacher, suddenly, boom, he's a "victim". What's going on?

Males bullshit women all day saying love, etc. And that's legal. We expect that. But when men honestly just want to pay for sex, boom, it's exploitation.

I have a female friend that are trapped into a marriage. I just don't want this to ever happen to any pretty women again. In many countries, Marriage is sexual slavery because women can't get out easily. But society just shrug that off. When that same women want to mate with richer males in richer countries, then, boom, it's exploitation, despite consent.

Of course in rich countries like US, it's the women that opposes free sex, especially the ugly. So if you're an American male, don't worry. You can attract chicks. It's the women that keep bitching.


In theory it all sounds nice. Unfortunately humans are the opposite of theory. Take prostitution for example. I being much the libertarian feminist believe that a woman should be able to do what ever the fuck she wants with her body as long as it is completely her choice. Unfortunately a large majority of the worlds prostitutes are forced into it and become victims of human trafficking, which I could barely imagine a worse scenario. So in theory a career of prostitution should work, but in reality it's a dirty evil awful world where instead of a person's choice it's more about domination, oppression and greed.
 
In theory it all sounds nice. Unfortunately humans are the opposite of theory. Take prostitution for example. I being much the libertarian feminist believe that a woman should be able to do what ever the fuck she wants with her body as long as it is completely her choice. Unfortunately a large majority of the worlds prostitutes are forced into it and become victims of human trafficking, which I could barely imagine a worse scenario. So in theory a career of prostitution should work, but in reality it's a dirty evil awful world where instead of a person's choice it's more about domination, oppression and greed.


Look missy, if we men want your opinion, we'll give it to you!


<gonna go hide now!>
 
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