Any advice on being distracted by females? (how it affects success)

Why are there so many guys who seem to put pussy up on a pedestal? This is one of the dumbest posts I've ever seen.... how do you get "distracted by females"? My girl sits downstairs and doesn't bother me all day when I'm working. You just need to find the right girl.. And like BigWill said above, the right girl will push you, not hold you back.
 


profitordie said:
Napoleon Hill have chapter in his book, Think and Grow Rich, called Sexual Transmutation. In short: "sexual transmutation is the act of transforming sexual energy into creativity, increased productivity, happiness, health and confidence."
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I was just going to post this as soon as I saw the thread title.

Masturbating often is actually NOT a good thing according to some people's interpretation on what Napoleon Hill was talking about. Not having that "release" tends to be fuel to a man towards his professional pursuits.

I think it was Berto who had posted that he had found success by masturbating less.

I really wanted to cut down on masturbating, but then came to WF and saw tits, and my goal of not fapping fell by the wayside.
 
Sexual Transmutation has been around long before Napoleon Hill. It actually goes back to India and yoga. Waaay back. Possibly brought south by the Aryans actually. So possibly even further back. Early human knowledge. Just impossible to put into practice lol.
 
Dwight Schrute said:
I was just going to post this as soon as I saw the thread title.

Masturbating often is actually NOT a good thing according to some people's interpretation on what Napoleon Hill was talking about. Not having that "release" tends to be fuel to a man towards his professional pursuits.

I think it was Berto who had posted that he had found success by masturbating less.

I really wanted to cut down on masturbating, but then came to WF and saw tits, and my goal of not fapping fell by the wayside.
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Yeah sexual energy is something people take for granted. A lot of the worlds geniuses were celibate. Still sometimes the tension of lust is too great to handle, so you can either waste time on them, acting like you care about them, wasting money on them, etc. Or you can just watch a porno and continue on with your day being productive.
 
BigWill said:
A real female will encourage you to go farther in business/life.
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This.

To those guys saying love doesn't exist, and that all girls are whores..damn, you guys are sad!

You've obviously not met the right woman yet, otherwise you wouldn't be so cut and dry about it. My girl's more than helpful, and supports me in whatever.

To be honest, some of you need to stop sitting there with your little chodes in your hands and go out one in awhile. Life isn't all about money, and spamming WF with your inane bullshit.

That is all.
 
liesnillusions said:
Seriously I haven't wasted time on a bitch in a couple years and I'm a good looking fit dude. Maybe I'm gay.
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Nah, you're definitely some kind of super alpha male beast.

I'm messing around. I went a three year stint one time were I didn't get involved with a girl any more than passive flirting. This was after a four year long relationship. Those three years were the most developmental ever, intellectually, spiritually, maturity, financially, psychologically, etc. Except physically... because I found World of Warcraft.
 
BigWill said:
A real female will encourage you to go farther in business/life.
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I agree with this. I've been with the same girl for a long time and it's impacted my business for sure, mostly for the better. The only downside is the sheer volume of time it takes to maintain a relationship. I'm not distracted by females at this point, I'm distracted by the relationship--which isn't nearly as bad since relationships are relatively stable compared to picking up/getting rid of women on a constant cycle.
 
Anyone who says they don't want to be in a long term relationship or get married is a certified homosexual, or out of touch with reality (or more than likely is a loser with a shitty personality which would explain why they can never find any decent girls).
 
TFLNetwork said:
Anyone who says they don't want to be in a long term relationship or get married is a certified homosexual, or out of touch with reality (or more than likely is a loser with a shitty personality which would explain why they can never find any decent girls).
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I have no desire for a long relationship or marriage at this point of my life. Some guys would rather go through life experiencing relationships with different women, rather than settle down with just one. I don't see how you correlate not wanting a relationship to being a fag.
 
Dr_Ngo said:
I have no desire for a long relationship or marriage at this point of my life. Some guys would rather go through life experiencing relationships with different women, rather than settle down with just one. I don't see how you correlate not wanting a relationship to being a fag.
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Personally I think its a lot more work to rotate or switch women frequently. There is a certain learning curve. Most girls don't understand my drive which tends to be counter productive. I do understand wanting to be "single" but I feel that creating a team is way more powerful.
 
Dr_Ngo said:
I have no desire for a long relationship or marriage at this point of my life. Some guys would rather go through life experiencing relationships with different women, rather than settle down with just one. I don't see how you correlate not wanting a relationship to being a fag.
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So if you found a girl you truly cared about -- you would just continue switching girls and not see it any further? Seems a little strange to me.
 
TFLNetwork said:
Anyone who says they don't want to be in a long term relationship or get married is a certified homosexual, or out of touch with reality (or more than likely is a loser with a shitty personality which would explain why they can never find any decent girls).
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That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Plenty of guys stay away from marriage and long term relationships because it's fucking torture for them, not because they aren't capable of doing it.

I agree with liesnillusions, 9 times out of 10 long term relationships are pointless time-sinks and get in the way of ambitions and dreams. Most girls offer little to nothing outside of sex, they suck at stimulating conversation and take every joke seriously. You end up spending so much time and energy trying to 'make it up to her' when she thinks you fucked up when in reality she is emotionally needy and needs to latch on to a stronger person to get through life.

Start taking a tally of how many times your girl expresses that you need to change something to make her happy and vice versa- the girl always wants you to change exponentially more than you want her to. They are vain creatures who train men like dogs using sex as a treat.

It's not like I aim low either, I would never even think of being in a relationship with a girl I would classify as 'stupid' or a whore. I've been in a relationship with a psychology major for almost 2 years now, and I know it's the closest I'm going to get so I'm just sticking with it. I fantasize very often about being free of it, I certainly wouldn't say that someone who chooses to stay away from these relationships has a 'shitty personality', there's a big difference between avoiding relationships and being unable to maintain them.
 
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Kstanki2 said:
That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Plenty of guys stay away from marriage and long term relationships because it's fucking torture for them, not because they aren't capable of doing it.

I agree with liesnillusions, 9 times out of 10 long term relationships are pointless time-sinks and get in the way of ambitions and dreams. Most girls offer little to nothing outside of sex, they suck at stimulating conversation and take every joke seriously. You end up spending so much time and energy trying to 'make it up to her' when she thinks you fucked up when in reality she is emotionally needy and needs to latch on to a stronger person to get through life.

Start taking a tally of how many times your girl expresses that you need to change something to make her happy and vice versa- the girl always wants you to change exponentially more than you want her to. They are vain creatures who train men like dogs using sex as a treat.

It's not like I aim low either, I would never even think of being in a relationship with a girl I would classify as 'stupid' or a whore. I've been in a relationship with a psychology major for almost 2 years now, and I know it's the closest I'm going to get so I'm just sticking with it. I fantasize very often about being free of it, I certainly wouldn't say that someone who chooses to stay away from these relationships has a 'shitty personality', there's a big difference between avoiding relationships and being unable to maintain them.
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Haha i love wickedfire dating advice... it comes down too each his own I guess.

I have been with the same girl since I was 15. Sure I may have missed out of fucking bitches every night... But there is no way i'd be where i am today without her... she has been right there stacking along side me. And what the fuck? If a girl tells you that you have to change... trust me, she isn't the one.

When it comes down to it, its more of an emotional thing if you can be with a girl or not for a long term thing. I know people don't like it, but if you find the right one, wife the shit out of her ASAP. When you are 70 years old and haven't gotten to experience growing old with someone by your side... talk to me then. If you "fantasize" about being out of your relationship, I don't know what to say about that.
 
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