I don't know that parents not giving their children enough attention has anything to do with their ungratefulness
I do.
What on earth do some parents do, or not do, that creates such devilish bastards? This honestly just reinforces my decision to not have kids.
Good decision, that.
Even great parents, who normally turn out world-class children, can have a "dud." Usually it's the middle child. But these kids who lack drive, honesty, and integrity still aren't that bad if they got lots of attention growing up and they will still have no desire whatsoever for material stuff like an iPad. The worst of them could still never say anything above at all.
Parents don’t deserve all of the blame as they are only part of the equation (an important one, no doubt). Teens have more autonomy than parents want to believe. Thus the rebellion / parental conflict stage.
You're starting way too late guy; A child is "Ruined" in this respect by age 5 or 6. Teens??? Wow.
Of course there is no hope for them by that point.
I’m convinced that some kids turn out rotten regardless of adequate parenting due to other environmental factors.
You'd only be correct in the case of kids who had a 90% good job of parenting and so are otherwise sitting on the fence.
...Of course that explains the best 30% of this whole freaking continent.
Other influences to consider:
1) Our gadget obsessed culture
2) Child’s peers (what friends and “other kids at school” got for X-mas)
3) Teachers
4) Marketing and mass media
Except for peers, these can't make the slightest scratch in a well-raised child. Not even a little fog on the window!
Peer pressure is a toughy though, and the
very best parents will tend to think of it as their nemesis... But not with all children even, just the weakest of them... The aforementioned "duds." They can have everything they want and a perfect upbringing, but basically stop listening to their parents in their teen years for need of their friends' attention instead. It's a really sad situation that always ends in tears and horrible life decisions.
Regardless of one’s best efforts a kid may turn out to be an entitled asshole.
You couldn't be more wrong on this point. (Assuming they know how to be good parents, which sadly too few of them do.) The only reason you believe it to be true is because you've never been close to anyone who has had a perfect upbringing... Sadly it's very rare these days. 1 in 10 million kids rare.
Parents are brave and giving almost to the level of insanity.
True, even with the mediocre parents. Sadly it takes great training and advanced planning too... Which I believe are both more important than bravery and being giving.