full time job + girlfriend = no internet monies
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That's how I got my start. Now my girl LOVES what I do now that she's seen how well it's paying off. Just make sure she understands you're putting your time in to better both of your lives if you are serious with her.
And hustle your ass off HARD for a solid few months, and stack up enough dough and stable income to quit your job, then hit it full-time.
Why did it take so long for someone to post this? Seriously, guys get hung up on a girl and waste their lives because of it. There are sooo many to choose from, especially after you acquire that currency.
The whole point of having a girlfriend is that you send them out to work all day whilst you sit at home all day working out how to acquire internet monies. Then they come home and make dinner.
You've got things the wrong way round there, son. We have feminism now.
You've got things the wrong way round there, son. We have feminism now.
I Too have a Girl Friend,
I solved it by this way,I Say her if i finish the work soon,I will spend more time with you,So you do work with me and share the work,Bought another computer and teach her how to do all this,She takes some time but soon understood.Now we do finish the work on time,She usually finish before me and take more job from me and finish it quickly to have more time and enjoy the time.
Talk to her everything solved
I solved it by this way,I Say her if i finish the work soon,I will spend more time with you,So you do work with me and share the work,Bought another computer and teach her how to do all this,She takes some time but soon understood.Now we do finish the work on time,She usually finish before me and take more job from me and finish it quickly to have more time and enjoy the time.
Talk to her everything solved
3 Options:
1. Dump girlfriend. Then after having success in your career, you end up convincing yourself it wasn't worth it and you should have picked the girl… but she's taken now.
2. Stay with girlfriend. Grow old together and have a great family… but most likely have a shitty ass job and you'll wish you could go back in time to focus on your career when you had the chance… that no longer exists.
3. Try to manage both. Sleep no longer exists. Stress goes through the fucking roof. You end up making mistake after mistake in both work and your relationship because you're not able to dedicate enough time to either one. So unless you're brain works like it's permanently high on Adderall, you're eventually gonna fuck both up. (Not saying it's impossible to successfully maintain both.. I know many who do, but I'm just saying...the chances are pretty fucking slim for the average joe)
It's like a lose - lose situation no matter what angle you look at it. Personally, I've been doing option 3 for the last 2 years or so and I question if it's the right decision almost everyday.
I can easily sacrifice friends, family, and hobbies... but my dream girl? I just can't do it. Sad part is I wouldn't be at all surprised if it didn't last forever... hell maybe not even 5 years... but it's like I'm unconditionally committed to her until it crashes and burns. (Let's face it, I'm young and stupid lol)
And if anyone disagrees with what I'm sayin... prove me wrong. Especially the older ppl who have actually gone through this shit in there life.
1. Dump girlfriend. Then after having success in your career, you end up convincing yourself it wasn't worth it and you should have picked the girl… but she's taken now.
2. Stay with girlfriend. Grow old together and have a great family… but most likely have a shitty ass job and you'll wish you could go back in time to focus on your career when you had the chance… that no longer exists.
3. Try to manage both. Sleep no longer exists. Stress goes through the fucking roof. You end up making mistake after mistake in both work and your relationship because you're not able to dedicate enough time to either one. So unless you're brain works like it's permanently high on Adderall, you're eventually gonna fuck both up. (Not saying it's impossible to successfully maintain both.. I know many who do, but I'm just saying...the chances are pretty fucking slim for the average joe)
It's like a lose - lose situation no matter what angle you look at it. Personally, I've been doing option 3 for the last 2 years or so and I question if it's the right decision almost everyday.
I can easily sacrifice friends, family, and hobbies... but my dream girl? I just can't do it. Sad part is I wouldn't be at all surprised if it didn't last forever... hell maybe not even 5 years... but it's like I'm unconditionally committed to her until it crashes and burns. (Let's face it, I'm young and stupid lol)
And if anyone disagrees with what I'm sayin... prove me wrong. Especially the older ppl who have actually gone through this shit in there life.
This thread was super interesting to me as a girl with a bf who works online so I gave it some thought.
Your girlfriend sounds like she literally can't comprehend what you're trying to accomplish. She probably sees it as "playing" on the computer like her friends' thunderdouche boyfriends. The fact is that no amount of time my boyfriend spent describing to me what he did ever fully explained it to me, until he started involving me too. Don't get me wrong; I respected him for the life he created for himself and the luxuries that working online can afford (time-wise and other), but yeah, occasionally when I wanted to grab dinner with him and he couldn't look away from the computer I was frustrated.
When my bf actually sat me down, showed me some of what he does, and came up with ways to include me: I got it. It was amazing. I'm not sure how patient you are when talking to her, so this may not apply to you, but give it a shot if she's worth it.
With that said, even if she has absolutely 0 interest in what you do online, a supportive and worthwhile significant other is going to want to see you through your dreams regardless of whether they actually understand them. Maybe outline it like that to her? Like, if she decided she wanted to become a competitive swimmer because it was her dream, and that meant 2-3 hours in the pool after work everyday...would you demand that time was alloted to you to watch movies? Or would you go cheer her on at her swim meets? Right?
Whatever you do, though, don't take the previous advice of working your ass off in the morning and at night to avoid confrontation from her and to fit in more hours watching Jersey Shore. Not only does that completely disregard your needs altogether, but it will create a lot of resentment down the road.
GL!
Your girlfriend sounds like she literally can't comprehend what you're trying to accomplish. She probably sees it as "playing" on the computer like her friends' thunderdouche boyfriends. The fact is that no amount of time my boyfriend spent describing to me what he did ever fully explained it to me, until he started involving me too. Don't get me wrong; I respected him for the life he created for himself and the luxuries that working online can afford (time-wise and other), but yeah, occasionally when I wanted to grab dinner with him and he couldn't look away from the computer I was frustrated.
When my bf actually sat me down, showed me some of what he does, and came up with ways to include me: I got it. It was amazing. I'm not sure how patient you are when talking to her, so this may not apply to you, but give it a shot if she's worth it.
With that said, even if she has absolutely 0 interest in what you do online, a supportive and worthwhile significant other is going to want to see you through your dreams regardless of whether they actually understand them. Maybe outline it like that to her? Like, if she decided she wanted to become a competitive swimmer because it was her dream, and that meant 2-3 hours in the pool after work everyday...would you demand that time was alloted to you to watch movies? Or would you go cheer her on at her swim meets? Right?
Whatever you do, though, don't take the previous advice of working your ass off in the morning and at night to avoid confrontation from her and to fit in more hours watching Jersey Shore. Not only does that completely disregard your needs altogether, but it will create a lot of resentment down the road.
GL!
Tell her to relax, one of my old girls tripped on me like this before, she was mine for 2 years but had to cut her loose since she was hurting the business. Fast Forward I got a really hot girl now and shit is great. I don't think many guys that do affiliate marketing have girls anyways, so hopefully shit goes well for you, if anything hit it big an tell her I told you so lol :rainfro:
Everyday.
Eat her till she comes like 10 times.
Let her ride you till she comes another couple times.
Lay with her for a few minutes. Let her sleep.
Drink redbull.
Start working
????
Profit.
At some point of time, you will need her or some women.
Or.
Manage time. Outsource. Automate.
Be a Manager. Most Manager don't work
*** My Tip doesn't work when she is having her period. No Solution for those few days.
Eat her till she comes like 10 times.
Let her ride you till she comes another couple times.
Lay with her for a few minutes. Let her sleep.
Drink redbull.
Start working
????
Profit.
At some point of time, you will need her or some women.
Or.
Manage time. Outsource. Automate.
Be a Manager. Most Manager don't work
*** My Tip doesn't work when she is having her period. No Solution for those few days.
I've been married 11 years now. Two kids, a 13 yr old and 1 year old. Both boys.
I also have a 7am to 5pm job ( barring fucked up shifts if one of my monkeys calls in sick).
I have been lucky enough that my day job let me start learning marketing on the clock ( got the hotels website ranking good). I have always had issues making time to acquire Internet monies because I was taught growing up that family comes first.
It's been here in the last 4 months or so that I finally realized if I wanted it bad enough I have to sacrifice. That's pretty much when it became more of an obsession than a side job. In fact, thanks to a new friend of mine named adderall, I have been functioning on about two hours sleep a night.
It comes down to what is important to you, and how much so. Then do what you have to.
I also have a 7am to 5pm job ( barring fucked up shifts if one of my monkeys calls in sick).
I have been lucky enough that my day job let me start learning marketing on the clock ( got the hotels website ranking good). I have always had issues making time to acquire Internet monies because I was taught growing up that family comes first.
It's been here in the last 4 months or so that I finally realized if I wanted it bad enough I have to sacrifice. That's pretty much when it became more of an obsession than a side job. In fact, thanks to a new friend of mine named adderall, I have been functioning on about two hours sleep a night.
It comes down to what is important to you, and how much so. Then do what you have to.
Just because I think it fits in here...
full time job, girlfriend, internet monies
Pick two.
Do you have a sister?
full time job, girlfriend, internet monies
Pick two.
Do you have a sister?