I think you have this very, very wrong. I'm 25 with 2 kids - and I can tell you without a doubt that because of my kids, I know EXACTLY what I want out of life... not just for them, but for myself.
Get Married & MAKE BABIES!
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I think you have this very, very wrong. I'm 25 with 2 kids - and I can tell you without a doubt that because of my kids, I know EXACTLY what I want out of life... not just for them, but for myself.
I never want to reproduce.
I just don't like myself so much as to need to copy myself into the gene pool.
I'm all for adoption. I'll raise someone else's kids- Statistically, I'd probably get a disadvantaged kid, and statistically, disadvantaged kids raised in a good family "do better" than the kids who just had "good genes" to begin with [after they graduate; numbers suggest genetic disadvantages will show all the way through high school, and then good parenting will kick in].
Think about that: Rub your ego, clone yourself, raise your own- You get a decent kid who'll probably be a lawyer or a doctor. He even looks like you, which is convenient for family photos and making your inlaws happy, and if he wants to see himself in 30 years, he need only look at Dad, and you've already ruined the surprise.
Or, take the high road, pull a kid away from bad parents, love something that's not an extension of yourself, raise a boy that probably didn't otherwise have a chance, and he'll be way more likely to succeed in Aff Marketing, or the stock market, or any other profession where you can't just be a dumbass with a piece of paper and still "get by".
Yeah, option B.
I just don't like myself so much as to need to copy myself into the gene pool.
I'm all for adoption. I'll raise someone else's kids- Statistically, I'd probably get a disadvantaged kid, and statistically, disadvantaged kids raised in a good family "do better" than the kids who just had "good genes" to begin with [after they graduate; numbers suggest genetic disadvantages will show all the way through high school, and then good parenting will kick in].
Think about that: Rub your ego, clone yourself, raise your own- You get a decent kid who'll probably be a lawyer or a doctor. He even looks like you, which is convenient for family photos and making your inlaws happy, and if he wants to see himself in 30 years, he need only look at Dad, and you've already ruined the surprise.
Or, take the high road, pull a kid away from bad parents, love something that's not an extension of yourself, raise a boy that probably didn't otherwise have a chance, and he'll be way more likely to succeed in Aff Marketing, or the stock market, or any other profession where you can't just be a dumbass with a piece of paper and still "get by".
Yeah, option B.
That site was pretty amusing...but I'm really getting sick of married dudes crying about their wives treating them like shit or not putting out.
The game never stops. It started in adolescence and will continue until you are no longer capable of humping. Just like how some women let themselves go when they get married, you became about as sharp as a cue ball when it comes to your game. Then you wonder why she'd rather read until you fall asleep to avoid a bone sesh.
I'm gonna start a PUA style site for married guys. Someone needs to.
/general rant towards unhappy married men I encounter on the internet
This line is really funny when taken out of the context of your post. Like you've spent a bit too much time on CL m4m lately...
Agreed completely. From that site, most of the men just expect a completely easy ride when they're married. You always need to be reminding your other half who's who in a relationship. That's just part of life.
The game never stops, but you can keep the puck on your side. A lot of people I know are tied in relationships that they know they don't want, but have gotten so complacently conformed to it, that they see no other option. There is an option, grow fucking balls and do the boldest thing you can imagine.
People who don't constantly evaluate their well-being will unconsciously drift through life. They fall into the plans everyone else has for them, marriage, babies, good "corporate job". Fuck everyone else. There will never be another human being on this planet that is you.
You're the end result of millions of years of blood, carnage and survival - make your ancestors proud and sportfuck like Clint Eastwood until your 65 and then marry a 30 year old Latina.
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