The most wonderful thing that has ever happened in my life is having children. Not always easy but always keeps you on your toes and brings lots of joy and laughter into your life. Good luck to you and your fiancee bro.
Don't worry about the list - it will seem far less important once you are a parent.
They say a man doesn't know true love until he has his first child. I know it's true and I'm sure you will to. Good luck and get as much sleep while you can
I have been helping my sister with her two kids (one 4, the other almost 2) the past couple weeks cause their usual sitter had to fly far away for some family emergency. Jesus Christ it is hard. Good luck bro.