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Sounds like you need a restraining order?
I'm not sure why you would accept these people as part of your life, let alone give them money.
Don't accept the police as a legitimate part of society, it'd be hypocritical to use their services when I despise them so. If my kids go missing or something, then I'll be a hypocrite. Also restraining orders publish your address, can't have that.
I give them money every so often, and they leave me alone. If I don't, they quite invariably figure out where I live and show up. The last time that happened it was like an episode of cops. My neighbor was trying to help, but only made things worse by calling them in.
We moved shortly after, for a number of reasons.
Was this a family member? Or some whacko off the street? When we gonna get the backstory?
Family. Fine, story
I have a bunch of crazy family, if I'm on WF for long enough you'll hear about them all, but this was my aunt and her boyfriend.
My aunt is mid 50's, HIV positive, lost her kids to the state years ago, doubt she's had a job since I was a kid.
I've been giving her money to keep her from fucking up life for myself and extended family for a while.
I went out and dropped off a chunk, told her it had to last for X amount of time and her boyfriend told me it wasn't enough. Turned back to my aunt and told her if it wasn't enough she should get a job and I'd keep the money, and that I'd rather burn it than give it to her anyway.
Her boyfriend grabbed at the envelope, a bit of tugging, words were exchanged, and he fucking bit my finger. I dropped the cash, howled, kneed him in the face as he went for the money, and as I checked out my wound I got pen stabbed by my aunt.
I ran out of that place like someone suggested I stay the night. Left the cash and good riddance.
I can't stress enough how much of a disaster this woman is, and the nightmare she brings with her. It's easier to just pay her, eventually she'll die. One can only hope.