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bizousoft said:
my neighbor is 8/10 and I invited her to go for coffee twice and every time she says something like "i'll let you know" and nothing happens.

I know she likes me, but I don't want to sound like a loser and say something like "so when are we finally going to have that coffee" lol

how should I invite her? I can't call, but I can msg on facebook

P.S: I know it may sound silly, but there's definetly some attraction there. I think may be the first 2 times I invited her I wasn't specific enough I was
basically asking her when she wants to go.
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you doin it wrong.

you think you need to go to get coffee with her to get something started, but really what you should try to do is get attracted to you before even asking her to go somewhere with you.

If you fail to do this, "going out for coffee" or any other invitation coming from you will sound like a boring chore to her and she will ignore you.

Essentially you don't need to ask her about "when we having that coffee, gurl?", you need to man up and ask yourself "when am I gonna man up and finally try to hook up with this girl"

When you decide to hook up with her instead of taking her out your mind becomes infintely flexible and while you're bullshitting with her about random things you'll be able to pick up on opportunities and points of leverage with this girl, then you just use all this information to make "going out with you" irresistible for her or just take her to your place right there.
 


iPwnNoobs said:
So I met this chick, she was by far the prettiest girl I have met this month and in person things were swell. I mean I started fliting with her and she flirted back and she ended up telling me I was going to have to chase her for like 3 months because she wanted to see if I was really interested, I said okay and I pretty much left. So I sent her a message the first day and this is practically how it went. (I met her this past Friday)

(FRIDAY)
Me:So how long will I have to chase you before I can take you to dinner?
Girl: we will see
Me: well I hope that I dont have to wait three months before I take you out to dinner...but if I have to I will
Girl: awwwww
Me:
Me: (6 hours later) what are you up to tonight?
Girl: no response

Saturday
Me: have a nice day at work
Girl: thank you
Me: how was your day sweetheart?
Girl:no response

Sunday: I did not text her nor did she text me

Monday:
Me: Hope you have a great day
Girl: no response
Me ten hours later) so is this whole ignoring my messages part of the me chasing you part, not that I mind being ignored and all, I just dont want to bother you
Me: and I did not say that to be rude in any way, I just dont want to bother you
Girl:no reply

OP SAVE ME WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW HOW DO I PICK HER UP????
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You've lost this one already, just let it go.

If another girl tells you about "chasing her" - tell her straight up that this isn't how things work with you.

Try to cut as much of the "game" bullshit out of your conversations with girls.

She told you about the "chasing" part to be socially acceptable and you took the fake bait; if she was really attracted to you, she'd want you to call her out on that... however you went with it and spent all your time doing what this girl didn't want you to do in the first place - pursuing her instead of making her attracted to you.

Now she isn't interested anymore and you come off to her as "one of the nice guys" (millions of those out there).

Oh well. Next.
 
cowsgonemad said:
what courses/books comment would you recommend for a wannabe PUA??? whats your opinion on "speed seduction" by Ross jeffries.
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Just read:

1. Double Your Dating
2. Revelations - Venusian Arts

AND STOP THERE

Call me a hypocrite for marketing this stuff, but I'm actually NOT a giant fan of courses and material.

For the record, I actually have a lot of respect for a lot of the PUAs out there, though I think Ross is an exception. I met that guy personally at the airing of our show 2 years ago at Neil's place and he wasn't the warmest guy in the world.

He gets a lot of criticism for "being wierd" and rightfully so, I think NLP And related tactics have their place, but NOT with cold approach pick up in a bar or night club scene. For the record, having been in this space for quite some, I have yet to meet a good pua that uses speed seduction. I'd say save your time and get more in field experience.

Honestly, you will learn so much more by simply getting out there and opening sets and writing field reports. At some point, you'll probably want to get an in filed coach to evaluate your game live when you start hitting your sticking points.

-Kevin
 
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SimonD said:
somebody seeing as you have given some pretty good advice already maybe you can help me out a bit here too...


have you ever had any luck converting a girl from "just friends" to "more than just friends"??

there is a girl i have been hanging out with for ages and she says things to me like she feels really close to me and can really trust me but just isnt ready for a "relationship" right now. im finding it difficult to move our friendship past the stage of just cuddling on the couch sometimes and talking a lot. a few times we have been out and i have tried just putting my arm around her or holding her hand but she goes all quiet for a while and things get uncomfortable, she has kinda pulled away when i have done that as well.

should i just tell her how i feel?? help!
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Get her drunk to the point of rolling around on the floor then fuck the shit out of her. Then make a video of her rolling around then post it here on wickedfire and ask us what you should do to her while she's fucked up.

See http://www.wickedfire.com/shooting-shit/119097-been-drinking-since-4pm-gmt.html for guidance.

EDIT

Don't forget the "peacocking"

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somebody113 said:
Just read:

1. Double Your Dating
2. Revelations - Venusian Arts

AND STOP THERE

Call me a hypocrite for marketing this stuff, but I'm actually NOT a giant fan of courses and material.

...

Honestly, you will learn so much more by simply getting out there and opening sets and writing field reports. At some point, you'll probably want to get an in filed coach to evaluate your game live when you start hitting your sticking points.

-Kevin
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Good advice. I've been in the whole pickup scene since 2001 or 2002 (never posted back then but I read ASF) and way too many guys get caught up in reading material and keyboard jockeying rather than just doing it. Cuz often when you forgot about all the shit you've read and just do it, then you don't second guess yourself and you come across as self-assured. When you start trying to remember techniques mid-set you're fucked.

I'm all for bootcamps if the coaches don't suck. I never really needed one because I always did well enough to be satsified, but I took a custom bootcamp with Alexander from RSD recently and he nailed my sticking points with lazer precision. Really quite impressive.
 
iPwnNoobs said:
So I met this chick, she was by far the prettiest girl I have met this month and in person things were swell. I mean I started fliting with her and she flirted back and she ended up telling me I was going to have to chase her for like 3 months because she wanted to see if I was really interested, I said okay and I pretty much left. So I sent her a message the first day and this is practically how it went. (I met her this past Friday)

(FRIDAY)
Me:So how long will I have to chase you before I can take you to dinner?
Girl: we will see
Me: well I hope that I dont have to wait three months before I take you out to dinner...but if I have to I will
Girl: awwwww
Me:
Me: (6 hours later) what are you up to tonight?
Girl: no response

Saturday
Me: have a nice day at work
Girl: thank you
Me: how was your day sweetheart?
Girl:no response

Sunday: I did not text her nor did she text me

Monday:
Me: Hope you have a great day
Girl: no response
Me ten hours later) so is this whole ignoring my messages part of the me chasing you part, not that I mind being ignored and all, I just dont want to bother you
Me: and I did not say that to be rude in any way, I just dont want to bother you
Girl:no reply

OP SAVE ME WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW HOW DO I PICK HER UP????
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I cringed, your not moving out of the friend zone after that. When texting chicks just be creative and not say the same general shit that other people say. (Reply with her first name and a smiley face or something like that) Also one important tip, keep all your messages kind of short. No fucking long messages. Other than that, in general just be fucking confident and don't put the god damn pussy on a pedestal like a lot of men do that don't get women that often. Confidence, be yourself, and don't be a fucking pushover. That's all there is to it, all that PUA shit is just bullshit. Sure, maybe some of that stuff works but all women are different, the only way to get better at picking up chicks is.....you guessed it. Talking to them, talk to some chicks, then some more, then some more, and more,more,more, and then you'll turn into a fucking boss and getting pussy will be a piece of cake.
 
sicksass said:
Wow, I just came across this thread....Wow somebody113 is a fucking tool!!!
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Yeah, my thoughts exactly. His advice is so shitty and general it leads me to believe that he will make bank off of the idiot guys in the world that have zero self esteem or self confidence by getting them to pick up girls he paid to do so. There's no room for this douchefuck here, except for us to toy with when he doesn't even realize it. But enough of that. See ya dickbag.
 
Jon said:
Yeah, my thoughts exactly. His advice is so shitty and general it leads me to believe that he will make bank off of the idiot guys in the world that have zero self esteem or self confidence by getting them to pick up girls he paid to do so. There's no room for this douchefuck here, except for us to toy with when he doesn't even realize it. But enough of that. See ya dickbag.
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Fuckin' AWEESSOOMMMEEE!
 
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