Could you please stop using annoying fonts/colors/bold etc?
What i'm talking about? I'm talking about teaching boys and girls the facts of life then sit back and watch them make their own mistakes. The ONLY thing that is going to reduce unwanted pregnancies is education.
When you have sex, you can get pregnant. <----- Fact.
You shouldn't have sex because you can get pregnant... which is bad!!! <------ Not fact.
Not having sex is cooool! Most women wait until they are 19 to have sex! You should too! <------ Not fact.
Condoms are not always 100% safe. <----- Fact.
It is not necessary for the boy to ejaculate to get pregnant. <---- Fact.
Do you care to take a second and actually read what I have said? Here are the facts:
1) I have a graduate degree in education (why is this relevant?
I've been formally trained in how to teach students "FACTS" and did so in a former life...after working at a top tier management consulting firm, investment bank and tech start up....which is another story...)
2) I AM A WOMAN and hence uniquely able to understand the needs of women in a way that a man cannot (example:
have you ever tried explaining to a woman what it feels like when your balls itch?)
3) I have over a decade of experience working with this target demographic (i.e. those most likely to get abortions...statistics proves that age, class, race, socio-economics are statistically significant factors which effect this risk group)
4) Students have been taught 'FACT' in schools for years (FACT...google the history of sex education in school, current federal mandates, etc.)
5) Traditionally strategies of doing (4) have not worked (this is a FACT measured by policy goals set to reduce abortions, teenage pregnancies, etc. by X% - none have fared well)
Am I saying that as a man you cannot or shouldn't have an opinion? Of course not...
But what
I am saying is that many of these policies have proven utterly ineffectual because instead of listening to the ones who are most equipped to get into the hearts and minds of the people with problems - and those who have the formal and experiential knowledge base - many (often times men) "decide" what they believe "needs" to happen based on theory and then go ahead and do it. Simply
"teaching the facts" have not worked. Period. Full Stop. All you have to do is whip out a nice excel spreadsheet and plot the data points on the "x" axis of your standard sex education syllabus and the number of abortions on the "y" axis (percentage that is)
Abortion rate = f(standard sex education curriculum)
I would encourage you however not to take my word for it.
Try volunteering once a month at a planned parenthood center then use the strategies which you purport will work.
If they don't, try some of the suggestions listed here. Whatever proves most effectual, go with that....
This is not mindless banter here though. Too many people can write about problems and theories which sound actionable in "theory" and don't work in practice....