everyone who decides to live on purpose has to pick a point on the variety/depth spectrum. those who live for maximizing variety rarely know depth, those who choose depth rarely know variety. its a tough trade-off. the same argument could be made for one's approach to women, and there is no right answer, just a choice. nobody can ever say which path is better, having not been down the path they didn't take.
One of the wisest things I've seen written on these boards in...well...forever...
(though my internal calibration might be a bit out of whack from reading through this thread this morning: http://www.wickedfire.com/shooting-...e-her-but-her-fucking-dad-so-racist-damn.html )