what to do?....wife swallows



It's kind of suprising you'd bring this issue here of all places, but since you're asking around.... it is extremely unlikely that any fantasy your wife has is a threat to anything other than your ego.


Frank

That is why I am asking here, because in between all the hilarious jokes and rude comments there really is words of wisdom.
 
You're talking about your wife swallowing on a public forum overflowing with some of the most perverted and aggressive motherfuckers on the interwebz, and you go and censor yourself from saying the F word?!

Are you fucking kidding me?!?!?!
 
Whatever you do, don't ask her directly like half the guys in this thread are suggesting. Few things are less attractive than a guy who's all worried that his wife is fantasizing about some other dude. The vast majority of women are actively turned off by nagging, begging, insecurity, etc.

Positive reinforcement would be a good place to start. Don't pick something weak like, "Thank you so much, honey, the other night was wonderful!" Try something a little dirty and shocking, whisper it in some mundane situation (like when you're cleaning up dinner), then move on like it was no big deal.

In the long-term, though, you'd be well-served by getting a better handle on what makes your wife tick and learning how to properly seduce her. Much of the time, something like "bad taste" is just an excuse that means you didn't turn her on enough to make her stop caring.

Try reading The Art of Seduction (Robert Greene). It's a little long, but Greene uses a lot of good historic examples, breaks people down into types, and generally makes it easy to figure out why you're not getting the results you hoped for.

It's easy to say that your wife should be more cooperative, put in more effort, etc - but if you want a different sex life, somebody has to change and it might as well be you. There's a very, very good chance that with a change in approach, you could have the sex life you want.

two very great points, thanks for that. I have learned that through out the course of our relationship that mind games are a big part of maintaining the MAN OF THE HOUSE role,

for example having a BAD BoY attidude sometimes I notice my wife gets excited and kisses up to me much more. For example I am not a confrontational type of guy but when she is around I am more prone to tell someone off in public if they act like idiots. Those are the type of acts that a man needs to do sometimes to play the role. Im aware of that and thanks stephanie for reminding me cause i was seriously thinking about sitting down and havin that "im worried" conversation with her. Now I know that will turn her off and make me look like a whinning little bitch.

ill F her again tonight and slap her around like a little rag doll, weve done that before and she gets turned on by it but tonight im going to be a bit more rough.

so instead of worryin about someother dudes charisma being bigger then mine, I will step up to the call and show her whos her daddy!
 
You're talking about your wife swallowing on a public forum overflowing with some of the most perverted and aggressive motherfuckers on the interwebz, and you go and censor yourself from saying the F word?!

Are you fucking kidding me?!?!?!

anonymity is the key word here, you dont really think that I am mcgyver do you?
 
I don't think you're MacGyver. Hell, I don't even think you're MacGruber at this point. The real MacGyver wouldn't question why some woman was swallowing his man-filling; he'd just be glad to have his blood pressure down and mind cleared out so he could get back to work on defusing that bomb before Portland got wiped off the map.

But seriously, you're gonna be fine and so is your marriage.
 
Perhaps there are deeper issues here. Learn from Tommy DeVito in Goodfellas:

Tommy to his girlfriend before going over to talk to a friend
"I'm going to see Stacks. Don't you look at anybody or I'll kill you."

Girlfriend talking with her friend

"He's so jealous. If I even look at anyone else, he'll kill me."

(friend) "That's great"


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anonymity is the key word here, you dont really think that I am mcgyver do you?
Wait, how does censoring the f-word help with anonymity?
 
Hello friend,

It no sound like have good wife. Good wife should no look or think about other man. Should spend time serve husband and when no serve husband should be use time to think of ways to be more good wife.

Good luck bro
 
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Your marriage sounds like a joke. You'll "keep an eye on her" in case it looks like they're "going to hook up"? What the fuck kind of relationship is that? Is there any trust whatsoever?

And whatever you do, DON'T ask her, she'll lie, they always do. Just absolutely dominate her when you bang her, remind her there's one place/time/moment where you're the complete boss.
 
How is your relationship with your wife?

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Being assertive in a relationship is very important.

Do you have confidence in your wife?

Does she have it on you?

Do you have details with your wife?

Women love people that have details.

A post card, a flower, a kiss on the neck, a note on the fridge door, etc...

Have you ever swallowed another person's mocus?

That could be the feeling of your thing in your wife's mouth.

If you are trying to force things on your wife, there's a problem.

How clean are you when in sex mood?

Do you take a bath.

Does your underpants have sh-t on them?

Yep, I have been told by women that they hate seeing those traces on their partner's underware!

Hey, have you shaved those parts?

Like men, who love to see and taste shaved p...., women, too, like it....

Communication is the best way to go, and communicate with your wife, I don't know how your wife will feel if she gets to know or read this thread.

Isn't this something too personal to be treated here?

Just my opinion, other members have their own.

Sincerely,

Antonios

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WTF?

What do you care what movie she is playing in her head to get off?

All you are outing here is your deep insecurity about your relationship, your sex life and your friend.

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WTF?

What do you care what movie she is playing in her head to get off?

All you are outing here is your deep insecurity about your relationship, your sex life and your friend.

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there is no problem with me knowing that A movie is going on in her head while we are doing it.

There is a problem however if I know WHAT movie is going on in her head.


I guess i should stare out my window when my neighbors hot looking daughter is cleaning the yard in her tight athletic clothing and let my wife catch me droolling. When she asks "why are you staring at the neighbors daughter?"

Ill respond with....Quick honey take off your clothes I wanna F###!

yeah, thatll make her feel real special.
 
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I guess i should stare out my window when my neighbors hot looking daughter is cleaning the yard in her tight athletic clothing and let my wife catch me droolling. When she asks "why are you staring at the neighbors daughter?"

Ill respond with....Quick honey take off your clothes I wanna F###!

yeah, thatll make her feel real special.

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Step 1: Take a picture of your buddy.
Step 2: Poke two holes out where his eye are.
Step 3: Secure a rubber band to both sides.
Step 4: Slide your buddy's face mask on to your grotesque melon.
Step 5: Ring door bell.
Step 6: Experience your wife getting really turned on because finally she can imagine her husband not being an insecure, troll looking pussy.
 
fuck that.

this isn't his gf, it's his wife and mother of his kids...and she was publicly, and obviously giddy over some other cock right in front of him? then, she comes home that very night and swallows for the first time ever, after years of trying to get her to do it?

let it go if you want bro, but those are some shitty ass wife qualities. passively selfish on a few different levels.