F*** dude, more salt, that didnt help ,,|,_
It's kind of suprising you'd bring this issue here of all places, but since you're asking around.... it is extremely unlikely that any fantasy your wife has is a threat to anything other than your ego.
Frank
Whatever you do, don't ask her directly like half the guys in this thread are suggesting. Few things are less attractive than a guy who's all worried that his wife is fantasizing about some other dude. The vast majority of women are actively turned off by nagging, begging, insecurity, etc.
Positive reinforcement would be a good place to start. Don't pick something weak like, "Thank you so much, honey, the other night was wonderful!" Try something a little dirty and shocking, whisper it in some mundane situation (like when you're cleaning up dinner), then move on like it was no big deal.
In the long-term, though, you'd be well-served by getting a better handle on what makes your wife tick and learning how to properly seduce her. Much of the time, something like "bad taste" is just an excuse that means you didn't turn her on enough to make her stop caring.
Try reading The Art of Seduction (Robert Greene). It's a little long, but Greene uses a lot of good historic examples, breaks people down into types, and generally makes it easy to figure out why you're not getting the results you hoped for.
It's easy to say that your wife should be more cooperative, put in more effort, etc - but if you want a different sex life, somebody has to change and it might as well be you. There's a very, very good chance that with a change in approach, you could have the sex life you want.
You're talking about your wife swallowing on a public forum overflowing with some of the most perverted and aggressive motherfuckers on the interwebz, and you go and censor yourself from saying the F word?!
Are you fucking kidding me?!?!?!
anonymity is the key word here, you dont really think that I am mcgyver do you?
Wait, how does censoring the f-word help with anonymity?anonymity is the key word here, you dont really think that I am mcgyver do you?
...but tonight im going to be a bit more rough.
WTF?
What do you care what movie she is playing in her head to get off?
All you are outing here is your deep insecurity about your relationship, your sex life and your friend.
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Hello friend,
It no sound like have good wife. Good wife should no look or think about other man. Should spend time serve husband and when no serve husband should be use time to think of ways to be more good wife.
Good luck bro
I guess i should stare out my window when my neighbors hot looking daughter is cleaning the yard in her tight athletic clothing and let my wife catch me droolling. When she asks "why are you staring at the neighbors daughter?"
Ill respond with....Quick honey take off your clothes I wanna F###!
yeah, thatll make her feel real special.