Where Have The Good Men Gone?



kingofsp said:
The social commentary is all well and good and everything, but there is something this author fails to realize: Women that give up on these adolescent men and move on are kidding themselves. If your boyfriend would rather play video games than spend time with you, then you aren't going to show him anything by leaving. You'll be lucky if he notices. Plus, he has already planted his flag in you several times, and when he sees you out with your new "adult" boyfriend, he will feel vastly superior to him in every way, because the new guy is the one that got duped into putting up with you.

When men like this eventually meet a woman that actually stands out from the rest of the girls who are hypnotized by Sex and the City and all those "never gonna happen" scenarios, it is not uncommon for them to "grow up." To expect guys who are young and having a shit load of fun to suddenly assimilate into some chick's version of adulthood just because she's not getting any younger and her dating pool is shrinking in contrast to her waist size, that pisses me right off.

There, Guerilla. I injected enough misogyny for the both of us.
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this. Many of the reasons that I'm starting to prefer European over American women is that they won't hint to me (on a 2nd date) that they're seeing me as a long term BF and possible marriage material just because I have ambitions, a growing business and speak more than 3 languages.

Whenever I look at a group of age 25+ American women, their dream seems to be getting married to the next guy they're going to hook up with at the local dive bar (mostly motivated by not wanting to be the "last one" in your group to tie the knot)
Whenever I look at the typical group of age 25+ American guys I hang out with, I see a PS3, weed, beer, MONEY and younger women.

I'll take the scandinavian chick who speaks more than 1 language, gets free healthcare, has awesome genes and doesn't even plan on getting kids/married before she's 35 over any American - SATC educated woman. THATS WHERE THE GOOD MEN HAVE GONE.

Oh, don't get me wrong. I love kids and I love the idea of getting married to someone you can trust and truely love (and not out of desperation). But lets face it: By doing this at 35, you'll have, on average, another 40 years to live with kids and wife. Sounds long enough to me.
 
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