You ALWAYS have a choice. You can do whatever you want, be whatever you want. They simply choose not to be something great, not to be a better person, or even a decent person. Its THEIR fault and nobody else's. They DO suck at life. Its their fault they did not acquire any extra skills/knowledge than the bare minimum to get by, its not anyone else's.
If I took away your money, your memory, and everything else you had going for you and put you in a position where you then had arrogant people like yourself saying you suck at life. You would immediately pull yourself together from nothing and start doing something to become independent, without even knowing where to start after a life of ignorance?
Right...