i don't have any problem getting girls (i'm 6'3" and muscular), it's just more convenient to walk in to a place and hand them $20 to get tits instead of talking to them for hours. not really looking for a gf either, so i couldn't care less if they're walmart tits or saks fifth avenue tits.
Do you go to the strip club alone?
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I only go to strip clubs for bachelor parties or other related events. It's always with friends.
Sometimes while I'm at these strip clubs, I have seen guys that come in alone and it's kind of sad really lol.
I've also dated a stripper and that did not end well. She was really good looking but not mentally stable in the least. Needless to say, I learned my lesson and will never do that again. Sex was amazing though, not gonna lie.
Sometimes while I'm at these strip clubs, I have seen guys that come in alone and it's kind of sad really lol.
I've also dated a stripper and that did not end well. She was really good looking but not mentally stable in the least. Needless to say, I learned my lesson and will never do that again. Sex was amazing though, not gonna lie.
Your lame if you're concerned about how going to the strip alone affects your image, or perceptions of it. Who gives a fuck?
also, you guys are acting like there's nothing but trailer skanks in strip clubs. The hottest girl I've ever been with I met in a strip club....a country girl, fucking Browning tramp stamp lol.
also, you guys are acting like there's nothing but trailer skanks in strip clubs. The hottest girl I've ever been with I met in a strip club....a country girl, fucking Browning tramp stamp lol.
Exactly - all those tough talking guys who says its creepy simply has not enough self esteem to pull that off.
A couple years ago the Pussy Club in Berlin advertised a 10am-4pm all you can eat drink and fuck special for €70.
"Berlin's "Pussy Club" has attracted media attention with its headline-grabbing "flat rate" -- a 70-euro admission charge for unlimited food, drink and sex between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m.
"You've got to come up with creative solutions these days," said club manager Stefan, who requested his surname not be published. "We're feeling the economic crisis, too, even though business has fortunately been more or less okay for us so far.
"Our offer might sound like it's too good to be true, but it's real. You can eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want and have as much sex as you want."
Global economic crisis hits German sex industry | Reuters
I said give me a wifi connection and I'll make it my office. Unfortunately the girls weren't that hot and I think they got shut down for poor hygiene issues
haha, on the left of the article there was some link to "Photo of the week" where this photo was displayed. Which I first thought had to be a picture from the sex club, or at least prostitute related.
As for the actual topic, I have only gone to a strip club once, which I went alone to. I do not enjoy them that much. Main reason I would go to a strip club I guess would be to potentially pick up strippers. since there must be a pretty high % of hot girls amongst them. But picking up strippers at a strip club is reasonably hard I Guess, and I am probably better off just going somewhere more normal and be more likely to find people more emotionally\mentally stable. If I just want to look at T&A I can do that reasonably easily from the internet anyway.
I don't mind, I probably go solo about 50% time I go to such places. At least once a week. My friends are fucking cheap anyway so I'd rather stuff the money into a stripper than pay for their overpriced drinks.
I just go there to get wasted and get some form of catharsis... it's what keeps me sane when living in an overpolluted shithole like Bombay.
I don't go there to get laid. Just to drink and do lines.
I just go there to get wasted and get some form of catharsis... it's what keeps me sane when living in an overpolluted shithole like Bombay.
I don't go there to get laid. Just to drink and do lines.
1- Going or not going to a strip club does not define you. Whether you feel it makes you lame, or cool, either way is stupid. Sex is inherently subconscious; everyone is different is preferences are no logical.
2- Anyone who has been to a strip club knows that it isn't only social inept that go. Most guys in a strip club are married. Many are very successful. The joy in a strip club is a matter of of power. You get what you want when you want it. (for full contact)
3- Getting girls out side of a strip club or in it is very different. Outside I have to think about her, warm her up, etc, inside I only think about myself. I like both. Call me crazy for it. Again, if you say you can get girls outside of a strip club, and therefore don't need to inside, you don't care about power. That is fine. But some of us like to be able to pic any girl in a club and for a few bucks get what I want, when I want, how I want.
4- STDs: You can get them with any type of sex. Get it over. You can also get liver damage from drinking. I've driven a motorcycle and could get killed. It is call risk management. Sure I don't want risk, but there is generally rewards to risk, and one has to make a balance in life.
5- Not all strip clubs are the same. Just because you went to a $5 one with ugly girls, doesn't mean every strip club is that way.
@ turbo,
This is a guy thing. You couldn't possibly understand. When you are on the hunt, you have all the power. You pick and choose. Men, don't quite (unless you are a rock star or famous, because even rich doesn't make all girls say yes). Strip clubs are the only place where the roles of sex are changed (women begging men, not the other way around)
2- Anyone who has been to a strip club knows that it isn't only social inept that go. Most guys in a strip club are married. Many are very successful. The joy in a strip club is a matter of of power. You get what you want when you want it. (for full contact)
3- Getting girls out side of a strip club or in it is very different. Outside I have to think about her, warm her up, etc, inside I only think about myself. I like both. Call me crazy for it. Again, if you say you can get girls outside of a strip club, and therefore don't need to inside, you don't care about power. That is fine. But some of us like to be able to pic any girl in a club and for a few bucks get what I want, when I want, how I want.
4- STDs: You can get them with any type of sex. Get it over. You can also get liver damage from drinking. I've driven a motorcycle and could get killed. It is call risk management. Sure I don't want risk, but there is generally rewards to risk, and one has to make a balance in life.
5- Not all strip clubs are the same. Just because you went to a $5 one with ugly girls, doesn't mean every strip club is that way.
@ turbo,
This is a guy thing. You couldn't possibly understand. When you are on the hunt, you have all the power. You pick and choose. Men, don't quite (unless you are a rock star or famous, because even rich doesn't make all girls say yes). Strip clubs are the only place where the roles of sex are changed (women begging men, not the other way around)
not sure if serious? could not believe papa john started this. go by yourself as the betas will hold you back.
who the fuck cares what ppl think
who the fuck cares what ppl think
How is moseying into a bar and then zeroing in on a girl who you then proceed to seduce not a display of power? Using your own charisma and prowess I think is infinitely more powerful than using money. Anybody can spend money.
irrelevant but hilarious
and lol @ people reading more into this than what it actually is. if you wanna go by yourself and get grinded upon for 10 minutes in exchange for some money go ahead. if not, dont. it doesn't make you anything. the same way if it isn't your thing, don't bother going and dont judge those who do go.
and lol @ people reading more into this than what it actually is. if you wanna go by yourself and get grinded upon for 10 minutes in exchange for some money go ahead. if not, dont. it doesn't make you anything. the same way if it isn't your thing, don't bother going and dont judge those who do go.
lol like I said, this came up as a topic with friends, two of which said they go by themselves a lot
zeroing in on a girl who you then proceed to seduce not a display of power?
Let me break that down for you:
First: You have to zero in on a girl that is receptive or you are going to find dozens of rejections. So she has to be open to you.
Then, you have to go talk to her. Even the best swag will still be meet by a % of rejection. Hardly empowering.
Then, when you talk to her, if you are smart, you will talk about shit she likes. You aren't going to talk about SE3s and shit. Conversation = must be to her liking or no fucking. If you are smart, most of the conversion is idle and stupid. Again, hardly empowering.
Then you have to buy her a drink, without looking at the price. Again, hardly empowering.
You also must be careful as to not get too drunk/stoned because that would turn her off (you don't want to act too stupid). Again, hardly empowering.
Then, when you get there (to her place or yours), you have to work at getting her hot. As a good lover, I'll generally be giving oral sex so as to please them. Sure I'll get it too most of the time, but as part of my overall effort. I'm not saying I won't have fun, but I'm gonna make sure she comes. That means, I'm likely not going to come when I want. Again, hardly empowering.
Then after sex, I want to turn around and sleep, or sometimes jump up and keep partying. But she is going to want to cuddle; to which I'll oblige. Again, hardly empowering.
Now, compare that to a strip club:
I'm out drinking and smoking. Then I want to get some action. I smoke and drink as much as I want.
I walk into a strip club. All the girls start going over to you, trying to please you. I pick one. Which ever I want. I will get 0% rejection. If I want to talk, we talk about what I want. She will act interested. If I don't want to talk, we won't; she'll still act interested. After that, if I want a blow job while drinking and smoking, I get it. If I want to go talk to another girl int he place afterwards, I go do it.
Honestly, if a girl is with you because you are rich, it is the same as a strip club. Expect you have to grovel.
I agree, but I don't use money to get girls. I won't even buy a girl a drink unless I already know her.
I also understand what you're saying about the convenience of a strip club, I just don't find it particularly rewarding. And I don't typically have to go to the great lengths you detailed to take down some girl at a bar. I'm not saying I strut in and point and then they follow me home, but it's not some laborious task. And besides, it's supposed to be fun.
Maybe it's because of my inner-sociopath that I can only enjoy it if I know I'm getting her emotionally invested in me.
I have no counterargument as far as not being able to jump back up and go right back to partying. I guess some guys might just do that anyway...but it's important to me that they go back and tell their friends how awesome I am for the sake of my ego and the convenience of taking down said friends in the future.
I mean you live in basically in LA - anyone that cannot get laid in LA......well, lets just say anyone can get laid in LA.
That's a given.
The only reason for strip clubs in LA is if you want to get off and have no baggage or accidental sightings when with your wife + I have never been to a club that was not full contact, though I have seen others having contact refused - just sayin' that you should check around and see if it isn't you with the problem.
Another thing that may skew my perception is the fact that we can't even order a fucking drink in fully nude strip clubs.