One man wolf packs, what gets you going?

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tatrasim

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Midlife crisis must have hit me early or not sure what kind of bug bit me, but I am 30, and going through the break up after 7+ years of marriage. Everybody is judging me right now, but I have nobody next to me from my family or even my point of view, so I dont care much. Is all of the america whipped or am I just not normal on my views? No home, no friends, no family... Just a one man wolf pack over here with 2 cubs to take care of, who are the only reason I am still somewhat sane. Y'all probably know my stand on women, and I am strong on my opinion, either commit, or gtfo. She decided to gtfo. My stand is that there is only one person to run the ship of the family and girls do not belong by the steering wheel.

So, to all y'all one man wolf packs - what gets you going?

I just got a junkie car, a low end apartment, thinking it will make me work harder, go for what I thing I should go for... But fuck... All I've been doing is drinking heavily. Need some motivation. Help da brotha out... Been drinking, otherwise would probably not even ask. Too fucking proud I guess. Either way, shoot your shit.
 


People care very little about you other than fleeting thoughts, both positively and negatively.
Hustle hard, and fuck that drinking- you need something to fill that hole in your life, do something positive.
 
tatrasim said:
Fucking nail in a coffin. I try and get shit done when I wake up in the right set of mind, but then bam - and nothing really matters anymore. Need so songs/movies/whatever that can influence me in the right way.
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If you have 2 little ones to take care of, that should move you more than anything else could.
 
thelorax said:
Your family loves you, but people care very little about you other than fleeting thoughts, both positively and negatively. Hustle hard, and fuck that drinking- you need something to fill that hole in your life, do something positive.
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Family, meaning kids? Yeah, if not them crying to see me, not sure where I would be. Hustle hard - trying... thats why Im asking. Drinking - fuck... Not sure why but for some reason I think it helps me get the stress off the shoulders and get happy for at least a moment. One after another - wake up with a headache but still trying to grind. A hole in life... Fuck yeah, there is. I dont even know what a fuck I should do anymore. When at some point everything seems perfect, and then bam - all you see is a nothing.
 
AustinP said:
Cry for the cuts and bruises, not for the bastards and bitches - SP
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Cuts and bruises are nothing, had those, can take em like a man... cuts and bruises on the heart - never had until now. Need help dealing with them. Still have a thought in the back of my head that she is just pulling my strings acting like she doesnt even want to talk the shit out.
 
what do you personally enjoy on an activity basis? Do you enjoy surfing, rock climbing, snowboarding, bike riding, etc?

Get out an do that, I can't comprehend how you feel right now because i've never been in that situation, but to me it kind of sounds like you've lost yourself amist it all. Lose the tough guy attitude because at the end of the day we are all real people, go do you for a day, clear your head, and re-group.

All will be well bro, there is always a bright side to things.
 
Been said before but I'll say it again. You have exactly 2 reasons to hustle hard. Be the father you'd wish you had.
 
You are going through a depression stage because of the break up... it will pass... matter of fact, you will probably realize it was for the better, might even discover a whole new you, with more possibilities.

Until it does pass though, man the fuck up... not for yourself, but for your kids.
 
LegitAM said:
what do you personally enjoy on an activity basis? Do you enjoy surfing, rock climbing, snowboarding, bike riding, etc?

Get out an do that, I can't comprehend how you feel right now because i've never been in that situation, but to me it kind of sounds like you've lost yourself amist it all. Lose the tough guy attitude because at the end of the day we are all real people, go do you for a day, clear your head, and re-group.

All will be well bro, there is always a bright side to things.
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I used to do a lot of shit before I got married... But then decided to settle down, stopped all the crazy shit I've been doing and went all in on the family. Used to love snowboarding, fighting, doing a lot of crazy shit. But now all the crazy friends are gone, not even sure what to do. I'd go snowboarding but the skills and people to go with are not there anymore. I put her as my best friend and made my interests in common with hers. Changed a lot, I think it could have been for the better, as I dont envy any of my past friends right now. But fuck... Trying to focus and get shit done, and all I have is the past several years in my head.
 
Russ86 said:
You are going through a depression stage because of the break up... it will pass... matter of fact, you will probably realize it was for the better, might even discover a whole new you, with more possibilities.

Until it does pass though, man the fuck up... not for yourself, but for your kids.
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Yeah, I have them right now. split 50/50. Spend all the money I have right now spending quality time with them, just in case it will be the last time I have them... As for me, I dont even know what to do right now... Some days I wake up and just have a grind feeling - getting shit done, focusing on programming shit and shit... Other days just bam - and dont give a shit anymore about anything. Just lost...
 
tatrasim said:
I put her as my best friend and made my interests in common with hers. Changed a lot, I think it could have been for the better, as I dont envy any of my past friends right now. But fuck... Trying to focus and get shit done, and all I have is the past several years in my head.
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Wait so you changed into a different person for her?
 
tatrasim said:
Yeah, I have them right now. split 50/50. Spend all the money I have right now spending quality time with them, just in case it will be the last time I have them... As for me, I dont even know what to do right now... Some days I wake up and just have a grind feeling - getting shit done, focusing on programming shit and shit... Other days just bam - and dont give a shit anymore about anything. Just lost...
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Do yourself a favor and get out of the house at least once per day... and keep active... meaning exercise... might sound crazy but simply exercising everyday can make a huge difference in how you feel and your motivation.
 
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