Professional Pick Up Coaching For Internet Marketing - Trade Skills
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WHAT TO EXPECT:
You're not going to be invited to the Azoogle playboy mansion party out the gate and I've seen the extent of what you can achieve with SEO and the art-form itself is EXTREMELY similar to a sales career. With 6 months of hard effort, you can expect to pull $8 a day and above on a pretty consistent basis.
You're not going to be invited to the Azoogle playboy mansion party out the gate and I've seen the extent of what you can achieve with SEO and the art-form itself is EXTREMELY similar to a sales career. With 6 months of hard effort, you can expect to pull $8 a day and above on a pretty consistent basis.
So I met this chick, she was by far the prettiest girl I have met this month and in person things were swell. I mean I started fliting with her and she flirted back and she ended up telling me I was going to have to chase her for like 3 months because she wanted to see if I was really interested, I said okay and I pretty much left. So I sent her a message the first day and this is practically how it went. (I met her this past Friday)
(FRIDAY)
Me:So how long will I have to chase you before I can take you to dinner?
Girl: we will see
Me: well I hope that I dont have to wait three months before I take you out to dinner...but if I have to I will
Girl: awwwww
Me:
Me: (6 hours later) what are you up to tonight?
Girl: no response
Saturday
Me: have a nice day at work
Girl: thank you
Me: how was your day sweetheart?
Girl:no response
Sunday: I did not text her nor did she text me
Monday:
Me: Hope you have a great day
Girl: no response
Me ten hours later) so is this whole ignoring my messages part of the me chasing you part, not that I mind being ignored and all, I just dont want to bother you
Me: and I did not say that to be rude in any way, I just dont want to bother you
Girl:no reply
OP SAVE ME WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW HOW DO I PICK HER UP????
(FRIDAY)
Me:So how long will I have to chase you before I can take you to dinner?
Girl: we will see
Me: well I hope that I dont have to wait three months before I take you out to dinner...but if I have to I will
Girl: awwwww
Me:
Me: (6 hours later) what are you up to tonight?
Girl: no response
Saturday
Me: have a nice day at work
Girl: thank you
Me: how was your day sweetheart?
Girl:no response
Sunday: I did not text her nor did she text me
Monday:
Me: Hope you have a great day
Girl: no response
Me ten hours later) so is this whole ignoring my messages part of the me chasing you part, not that I mind being ignored and all, I just dont want to bother you
Me: and I did not say that to be rude in any way, I just dont want to bother you
Girl:no reply
OP SAVE ME WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW HOW DO I PICK HER UP????
YOU DID EVERYTHING RIGHT AND IT DIDN'T WORK. SWEET MOTHER OF GOD OP, WHAT SHOULD HE DO NOW?!!!!
probably have to masturbate for the time being, sounds like he burned that lead, I'll try & craft a better response by tonight
Hey man, first off, just wanna say good job for at least having the balls to get this girl's number and pursue it. Don't be afraid to fail and make mistakes, a lot of guys pretend like they have game and I can confidently say that 9/10 guys can't walk into a bar full of strangers and get a girl's number via cold approach. The biggest takeaway/mistake is that you're focusing on 1 girl, I think the word "pick up artist" is deceiving, emphasis on the artist part, but it somewhat implies that you have super human powers and can get the girl under any circumstance which is NOT true, being a good PUA means working your #'s well. Make 20 approaches, get 10 #'s, get 4-5 dates to convert, and make 1 "sale" so to speak. So the first thing I would encourage you to do is to DO MORE APPROACHES and get more numbers so you can gain more experience. Some basic mistakes below:
Try to avoid words like "dinner" or "date". It sets up all these unnecessary expectations and really puts her on the spot. Simply ask her to "hang out" or just something more casual. From the first point of contact your goal is to get her to meet up with you again so you can buy yourself more game time. Keep things casual to begin with and don't burn your lead too early on in the interacation
Per 40 year old virgin, don't put the pussy on the pedastal. That's bullshit, don't treat her like a princess and act like she's better than you. When girls say they want a "challenge" what they really mean is that they want a guy that's higher value than they are (usually in a social sense, but hey, there's a little gold digger in every girl out there) and it's that inherent value discrepancy that creates a challenge. Never BEG a girl for a date, as arrogant as it sounds, she should be the one who's appreciative of YOUR time.
Careful w/ the questions, girls hate being "interviewed". I know it's tempting since you don't know the girl and the easiest to evoke a response is with a question.
Having done sales for 3+ years, I've learned that you have your biggest leverage with your prospect when you're on the phone TALKING to them or even better, TALKING to them in person. 90% of what's conveyed is your subcommuncation (tonality, body language, microexpressions) and only 10% is the words themselves. You lose a LOT of punch by trying to communicate via text message and that's no way to "game" a girl. So, in a nutshell, what you should have done is gotten her out on a second date and worked it from there instead of trying to "game" her via text message.
Also.... as with IM, you will need to learn how to "macro manage" your dating life. The reason most men fail with women is because they don't take it seriously. Back in college, I went out MAYBE once a week and when I did go out, I was too pussy to approach. Fast forward to after the show, I was making 10-20 approaches a night, 7 days a week. I approached more girls in a night than I did in a year back in college. You combine that with top notch guidance and documenting my results, it's only inevitable that I got better. Just ask yourself, if you treated job like you treated your dating life, how well would it do?
In anycase, I really hope this helps, I wouldn't sweat the "small details" too much with this interaction. What I would focus on is how you can CONSISTENTLY generate leads, the biggest hump for most guys is just getting over approach anxiety =P
(FRIDAY)
Try to avoid words like "dinner" or "date". It sets up all these unnecessary expectations and really puts her on the spot. Simply ask her to "hang out" or just something more casual. From the first point of contact your goal is to get her to meet up with you again so you can buy yourself more game time. Keep things casual to begin with and don't burn your lead too early on in the interacation
Per 40 year old virgin, don't put the pussy on the pedastal. That's bullshit, don't treat her like a princess and act like she's better than you. When girls say they want a "challenge" what they really mean is that they want a guy that's higher value than they are (usually in a social sense, but hey, there's a little gold digger in every girl out there) and it's that inherent value discrepancy that creates a challenge. Never BEG a girl for a date, as arrogant as it sounds, she should be the one who's appreciative of YOUR time.
Careful w/ the questions, girls hate being "interviewed". I know it's tempting since you don't know the girl and the easiest to evoke a response is with a question.
Ick, I really didn't like that last part, remember, you JUST met this girl, there's NO reason to be apologetic to her. "I just dont want to bother you", again putting her on a pedastal.
Having done sales for 3+ years, I've learned that you have your biggest leverage with your prospect when you're on the phone TALKING to them or even better, TALKING to them in person. 90% of what's conveyed is your subcommuncation (tonality, body language, microexpressions) and only 10% is the words themselves. You lose a LOT of punch by trying to communicate via text message and that's no way to "game" a girl. So, in a nutshell, what you should have done is gotten her out on a second date and worked it from there instead of trying to "game" her via text message.
Also.... as with IM, you will need to learn how to "macro manage" your dating life. The reason most men fail with women is because they don't take it seriously. Back in college, I went out MAYBE once a week and when I did go out, I was too pussy to approach. Fast forward to after the show, I was making 10-20 approaches a night, 7 days a week. I approached more girls in a night than I did in a year back in college. You combine that with top notch guidance and documenting my results, it's only inevitable that I got better. Just ask yourself, if you treated job like you treated your dating life, how well would it do?
In anycase, I really hope this helps, I wouldn't sweat the "small details" too much with this interaction. What I would focus on is how you can CONSISTENTLY generate leads, the biggest hump for most guys is just getting over approach anxiety =P
Read my response, I def gave more criticism instead of objective advice on "moving forward" with the interaction.
Your favorite internet marketer eben pagan (david deangelo) wrote double your dating, definitely a great place to start, I'd get carpal tunnel if I had to type out all details on how to approach.
Your favorite internet marketer eben pagan (david deangelo) wrote double your dating, definitely a great place to start, I'd get carpal tunnel if I had to type out all details on how to approach.
Hey man, u seem to know what you are talking about. have a BIG woman issue at the moment. There is a girl i like ..... stuff has happened... it fizzled out... she is now fucking some guy who won't even call her his 'girlfriend'.. she says she loves him. But i think she wants more out of him and he wont give her it.. Anyway.. this girl is like my IDEAL girl.. in every sense of the way.. I have made it clear how i feel and she just keeps saying..'i love u as a friend' etc... I know in my head that there are some feelings there but i don't know how to 'break' her!! lol...
Anyway....... she recently mentioned getting a house together.. and even sharing a room.. i said.. i couldnt hack it if she was seeing other people... she said she wouldn't... She is a bit of a 'tearaway'.. am i getting trolled hard??!! It seems she goes to him for sex and comes to me for affection.
FYI.. i have a bit of a 'soft' drugs problem which is getting in the way a bit.. she is suppoused to be helping me. This is like serious shit.. i think about her all the time.
Thoughts??
Thx.
Anyway....... she recently mentioned getting a house together.. and even sharing a room.. i said.. i couldnt hack it if she was seeing other people... she said she wouldn't... She is a bit of a 'tearaway'.. am i getting trolled hard??!! It seems she goes to him for sex and comes to me for affection.
FYI.. i have a bit of a 'soft' drugs problem which is getting in the way a bit.. she is suppoused to be helping me. This is like serious shit.. i think about her all the time.
Thoughts??
Thx.
Here's my PhD professional $.02. You gotta treat her like shit every now and then. Gotta keep them on their toes. The minute they spot weakness in you (i.e. show loss of confidence, show major vulnerabilities in the beginning) they'll get turned off. Once you turn them off a few times, it turns to indifference. Once indifference kicks in, you're fucked.
Opposite of in love = indifference, not hate
Opposite of in love = indifference, not hate
Indeed, the moment you completely satisfy a woman is when they start getting bored with you.
my neighbor is 8/10 and I invited her to go for coffee twice and every time she says something like "i'll let you know" and nothing happens.
I know she likes me, but I don't want to sound like a loser and say something like "so when are we finally going to have that coffee" lol
how should I invite her? I can't call, but I can msg on facebook
P.S: I know it may sound silly, but there's definetly some attraction there. I think may be the first 2 times I invited her I wasn't specific enough I was
basically asking her when she wants to go.
I know she likes me, but I don't want to sound like a loser and say something like "so when are we finally going to have that coffee" lol
how should I invite her? I can't call, but I can msg on facebook
P.S: I know it may sound silly, but there's definetly some attraction there. I think may be the first 2 times I invited her I wasn't specific enough I was
basically asking her when she wants to go.